I find it really amazing too about how emotions are tangible at least to oneself. When you feel good, your chest feels relaxed and airy but when you're jealous or angry or even disappointed, your heart feels heavy and hurts. The human body is amazing
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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
I find it really amazing too about how emotions are tangible at least to oneself. When you feel good, your chest feels relaxed and airy but when you're jealous or angry or even disappointed, your heart feels heavy and hurts. The human body is amazing | ||
zeratultassadar
Australia30 Posts
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flamewheel
FREEAGLELAND26780 Posts
I hope you feel better! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence <= yeah it was. | ||
nttea
Sweden4353 Posts
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EvilTeletubby
Baltimore, USA22222 Posts
2) This is just a high school crush/infatuation, nothing more than that. Feels like shit now but you'll LOL at yourself in a few years when you actually do have something real. | ||
il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
On April 19 2010 12:25 flamewheel91 wrote: <.< I know you feel, good sir. Girls can suck, seriously. I think a certain term might be able to describe what you have... I think it was limerence? I'm sure you'll be able to meet a new girl in college, one that's just right for you. High school relationships aren't the ones that are meant to last anyway, right?^^ I hope you feel better! http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence <= yeah it was. That was an interesting read, maybe that's whats wrong with me. I'm going to learn to be independent of her and be my own man! Who's with me? :D EvilTeletubby, this may seem like an infatuation but it's a really bad one. She was interested, I think for a while, but after she told me that we have to be friends, she sort of broke off from that. I should too. | ||
EvilTeletubby
Baltimore, USA22222 Posts
EvilTeletubby, this may seem like an infatuation but it's a really bad one. She was interested, I think for a while, but after she told me that we have to be friends, she sort of broke off from that. I should too. Bolded part - Nope, she wasn't. She may have thought she might be, but she wasn't really. Most women have no clue what they want, especially teenage females. Hell, you don't know what you want either if you're hanging onto this. Don't get me wrong btw, not trying to diminish what you think you had. Just saying, you'll look back on it with fondess and think how naive you were someday. All I'm saying is, it's no big deal... take the experience for what it was, remember the fun stuff, and move on. | ||
meeple
Canada10211 Posts
On April 19 2010 12:44 EvilTeletubby wrote: Bolded part - Nope, she wasn't. She may have thought she might be, but she wasn't really. Most women have no clue what they want, especially teenage females. Hell, you don't know what you want either if you're hanging onto this. Don't get me wrong btw, not trying to diminish what you think you had. Just saying, you'll look back on it with fondess and think how naive you were someday. All I'm saying is, it's no big deal... take the experience for what it was, remember the fun stuff, and move on. lol god man, you can be a buzz kill... I mean I agree... but there's no pat on the back and "It'll be all better" from ETT. Just the harsh cold reality... I hope you brought an extra pair of socks. | ||
Code
Canada634 Posts
On April 19 2010 12:47 meeple wrote: lol god man, you can be a buzz kill... I mean I agree... but there's no pat on the back and "It'll be all better" from ETT. Just the harsh cold reality... I hope you brought an extra pair of socks. EvilTeletubby - Owning girl blogs since 2004 | ||
EvilTeletubby
Baltimore, USA22222 Posts
But in all seriousness I've always felt that it's a better approach than commiserating with others and wallowing in self-pity. That just leads to regret, which is exactly NOT what he should be trying to feel right now. He should remember it for the good moments, and move along. | ||
il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
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Heyoka
Katowice25012 Posts
-Friedrich Nietzsche, the original ladies man | ||
YejinYejin
United States1053 Posts
Yeah! ETT Hwaiting! | ||
DeathByMonkeys
United States742 Posts
On April 19 2010 12:58 heyoka wrote: Ah, women. They make the highs higher and the lows more frequent. -Friedrich Nietzsche, the original ladies man Haha, great quote. Also I'm not sure of EvilTeletubys true age but if he says he's an old man he's probably seen it all before. Meaning he's probably right. I'm in college right now so I don't have much more experience then you, but for the most part women come and women go. | ||
il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
Btw, I remember her talking about how serious she takes relationships and stuff, and then ironically we sort of drifted apart. | ||
Snausages
United States529 Posts
there's a girl that i met in high school and like a lot. we had the same homeroom senior year and had some awesome conversations. whenever one of us wanted to go to, say, the computer lab, the other would follow suit. we eventually stopped doing that and did our own things as the year progressed, but we would still talk a lot. i remember towards the end of the year, she said i should transfer to some university near the one she was going to attend so that i could be closer to her, and i joked about how she's gonna make numerous new friends and forget all about me, haha well, both of us are in college right now, but she's in California, while i'm stuck here in little, old South Carolina. we still talk on Skype, and i periodically draw cartoon strips revolving around her and her imaginary pet panda (she loves pandas and everything else Asian), and she enjoys it. thing is, i don't know if she actually likes me as much as i like her, and i don't want to ask her online cuz that would be awkward. i guess i'll have to wait til the summer where we will be returning to our hometown; we might hang out with some old friends of ours. if she doesn't really like me, i'll just shrug it off, and we can remain friends. it's not like i need to look for a girl immediately. | ||
il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
On April 19 2010 13:16 Snausages wrote: i'm in almost the exact same situation as you are man there's a girl that i met in high school and like a lot. we had the same homeroom senior year and had some awesome conversations. whenever one of us wanted to go to, say, the computer lab, the other would follow suit. we eventually stopped doing that and did our own things as the year progressed, but we would still talk a lot. i remember towards the end of the year, she said i should transfer to some university near the one she was going to attend so that i could be closer to her, and i joked about how she's gonna make numerous new friends and forget all about me, haha well, both of us are in college right now, but she's in California, while i'm stuck here in little, old South Carolina. we still talk on Skype, and i periodically draw cartoon strips revolving around her and her imaginary pet panda (she loves pandas and everything else Asian), and she enjoys it. thing is, i don't know if she actually likes me as much as i like her, and i don't want to ask her online cuz that would be awkward. i guess i'll have to wait til the summer where we will be returning to our hometown; we might hang out with some old friends of ours. if she doesn't really like me, i'll just shrug it off, and we can remain friends. it's not like i need to look for a girl immediately. I wish I could be as calm and as rational as you are | ||
flamewheel
FREEAGLELAND26780 Posts
On April 19 2010 12:32 il0seonpurpose wrote: Thanks guys, I really appreciate it That was an interesting read, maybe that's whats wrong with me. I'm going to learn to be independent of her and be my own man! Who's with me? :D EvilTeletubby, this may seem like an infatuation but it's a really bad one. She was interested, I think for a while, but after she told me that we have to be friends, she sort of broke off from that. I should too. Haha, it really is quite bad. There's this kid, and she goes to college up north. And now I'm going to college. And it turns out she's transferring to that college. Oops round 2. | ||
TheAntZ
Israel6248 Posts
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FragKrag
United States11530 Posts
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Cube
Canada777 Posts
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Grobyc
Canada18410 Posts
I signed you up Lyle. | ||
EvilTeletubby
Baltimore, USA22222 Posts
On April 19 2010 13:15 il0seonpurpose wrote: Maybe the reason I like her so much is because I don't want to be like other people I know who date so casually and just are in a mess with everything. Since when did I say anything about casual dating? Just because a little high school thing didn't work out for you doesn't automatically turn you into a wannabe player or something, or prevent you from persuing something more meaninful, why would you think that?? If anything, it just gave you additional experience and helps you grow as a person, and helps you better understand what you're looking for. Having a relationship fail doesn't turn you into a manwhore. | ||
Grobyc
Canada18410 Posts
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Mastermind
Canada7096 Posts
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EvilTeletubby
Baltimore, USA22222 Posts
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Kyuukyuu
Canada6263 Posts
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Grobyc
Canada18410 Posts
Now you can just quote this post and close the the blogs in the future. I'm really doing you a favour you know. Consider it a late birthday present ;D | ||
EvilTeletubby
Baltimore, USA22222 Posts
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FragKrag
United States11530 Posts
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Maero
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Thanks Grobyc :D | ||
L_Master
United States7946 Posts
But I've been in these crazy mood swings, heading down for the most part lately, because after getting along really well, she told me we have to be friends (this is a long story). So after talking to her on the phone for about an hour or two a night for two months, she told me that... ETT's points are pretty good. Alsoif you were just talking to her on the phone for a few months, thats probably a part of why you became just a friend. You acted more towards her like a good friend would, than someone who wants a relationship. Once a girl starts liking you as a friend she won't go out with you, even if she feels some attraction, because doing so has a good chance of ruining the friendship and the good things that come with it. | ||
Cambium
United States16368 Posts
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pubbanana
United States3063 Posts
At the end of your life, you won't look back and wish you spent more time being miserable, but fuck it, it feels good to be filled with hatred and depression sometimes. | ||
ShaLLoW[baY]
Canada12499 Posts
end of story. trust me. TRUST ME. | ||
GrayArea
United States872 Posts
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krndandaman
Mozambique16569 Posts
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il0seonpurpose
Korea (South)5638 Posts
I'm not even sure if she wants to be friends, it's sort of difficult to act as if nothing has happened over the past couple of months. I might be crazy but it's like she doesn't feel like talking to me anymore. I remember her telling me things like, "Will you keep in contact when we go to college?", and "It's weird when you don't call me". The former is easy, I can do that every once in a while, but I don't know what to do now. Should I really just cut off contact with her? I figure that'd be weird because we still see each other at church and stuff... And thanks for that seminar, listening to it now | ||
Antimage
Canada1293 Posts
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pubbanana
United States3063 Posts
On April 19 2010 18:38 GrayArea wrote: Maybe after meeting other guys who aren't the same and spend so much time for her, she will value what she had and then come back. You know what, I bet she won't do that. | ||
DreaM)XeRO
Korea (South)4667 Posts
On April 19 2010 15:18 Grobyc wrote: Now you can just quote this post and close the the blogs in the future. I'm really doing you a favour you know. Consider it a late birthday present ;D THIS IS GO GOOD!!!! | ||
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