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Hey guys, I've got a scenario for you.
It's basically a case of: "Is it EVER okay or acceptable for a parent to tell their child that they wish the child was never born.?"
Personally I don't think so. But arguements for it could be: If you're having a heated arguement with your child, if they've deliberately hurt you, if they've said themselves that they wish they were never born, etc.
Any scenario you can think of that makes it acceptable?
Poll: Is it okay to EVER say that?No, no matter what happens (329) 82% Yes, it's okay to say (73) 18% 402 total votes Your vote: Is it okay to EVER say that? (Vote): Yes, it's okay to say (Vote): No, no matter what happens
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My mom told me she hoped i burn slowl in hell once it scarred me
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If the kid tries to kill his parent..maybe they might say that..otherwise maybe not lol.
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I think if it were said jokingly, that would be an acceptable scenario.
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have you had children?
this is kinda creepy.....
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I think it's wrong for a parent to ever abuse their child physically, emotionally, sexually, etc.
Telling your child you wish they'd never been born, in my opinion, falls under abuse. Psychologically, I think kids implicitly listen to what their parents say because instinctually, kids should be able to trust their parents.
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I'm sure my dad said that to me once in a fit of rage.
Didn't do any long-term damage, so it's all cool.
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No, it can have terrible effects even if said in a joking manner.
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I'm curious about the reason why you even start this thread, because the answer seems obvious. It's hardly something you can use as a joke, of course. OP you can talk to us, it's ok.
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Well if they think so, it's the parents' own fault...
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No. I would lose all respect for my dad if he ever said that to me.
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Eh what Lazymacro said. Though in regards to shitty things parents say to their kids, I was once called a beached whale by my drunk father while I was swimming, not to my face of course that'd require a backbone. Eff him. Not fat anymore
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This happened to one friend of mine and she is now on antidepressant medication.
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Yes...MAYBE, if your parents are jews in 1942 and you are born in auschwitz and all u do in live is scrambling to a gas chamber, because they love you so much and didn't wanted you to suffer such a short life :<...
or ...
no i think thats it...otherwise never ever ok to say.
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not unless the parent has mental health issues they should never say this to their child. its pretty terrible and really hurts the kid and their mental health and self esteem.
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It's a pretty serious thing to say to your child. Telling them that you wish they were never born is telling them that you want them out of your life... maybe if your son does hard drugs and steals from you and you want to disown him, but other than that or something similar, no, I don't think so.
If a kid says, "I wish I were never born," it's just the kid being a brat imo. But if you're old enough to have a child, you should know better.
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i was told that i was a mistake lol my brother and my sister is 3 years apart. i'm 9 years and 6 years apart from my siblings. supposedly, they only planned on 2 kids but they had me after 6 years :/
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something they said all da time lol...
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Parents are the major party responsible for the upbringing of the child. Telling the child that it should have never been born is blaming the child for the failure of the parents. Pretty poor conduct imo. It doesn't even make sense as an insult, as they would be insulting themselves with it, too.
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Only worthless parents would say something like that, unless their kid is a serial rapist or something along that line. It's really pathetic that too many people that should not be parents end up being one.
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