Fuck it, short version:
* Girl is 21, hot as shit, intelligent and has a lot in common with me.
* I am 22, not disgusting to look at, dresses reasonably well, without any real materialistic advantages since I've just started working.
I've liked this girl since 2 months ago, we always have a lot to talk about and I asked her out about a month ago.
She rejected me informing me that she's done dating young men and prefer to date older men (high 20s? low 30s?). I know she really likes and wants kids, so most likely she just wants a stable life with someone more mature and reasonably successful. I understood her decision and backed off.
However, 3 weeks ago she came onto me at a social gathering, resulting in her spending the night at my place. Afterward, I asked her again if she wanted to have a relationship, to which she replied that our night together was merely a drunken impulse, with the standard "I'd still like to be friends" line in addition. Fine, just women exercising their libido, I got mine so whatever.
Now, it's been more than 2 weeks since she started texting me like crazy (I'm talking about 1 text every 30 minutes, often just asking me what I had for lunch, etc.) Moreover, her texts are quite personal, not words you'd send to just a friend, asking me to go and cook with her at her place, to go swimming, etc. I've been worked like a dog at work, so my response texts have been very short and I declined her offers for outings.
Yesterday, she called me, audibly very upset, telling me that she hated me and wished that she had never met me, and hung up the phone quickly robbing me of a phone reply so I replied with a text asking her the same question as before, as in what she wanted from with me. She never replied to my question and I was starting to become very confused.
Since this morning, I've been getting her texts as usual. Nothing about her call to me last night, just the usual flirtatiousness with liberal amounts of winking smilies usage. So far today, I've gotten 12 texts from her when I've replied to none.
I ask out a girl, she rejects me. Some time pass, and we fuck after a social gathering. We have a talk afterwards, to which she explains that our night was just a drunken impulse and telling me she does not want a relationship with me.
Afterward for 2 weeks, she starts texting me flirtatiously with alarming frequency basically asking me out, but I decline her offers due to work.
1 night, out of nowhere, she calls me telling me that she hates me and wishes to have never met me and then hangs up the phone. I text her asking her what she wants from me, to which she does not reply.
Today, she has been texting me since morning. 12 texts, to which I've replied to none.
And now, I'm just confused as fuck. I never would have imagined someone could be this crazy / emotionally unstable / manipulative / etc. ? I don't know what to think of any of this.
Maybe I've just never dealt with crazy women before, but seriously, lol, the fuck?