| TheGiz Canada. May 18 2011 12:30. Posts 708 | Profile Blog # |
Let us return this blog to its roots, which is about dealing with women. I find myself in a unique position that I was not in last year when I first started posting, and that is that I am without female commitment for the first time in many years.
Naturally, I would like to maximize my enjoyment of this experience while it lasts, and so I am going to be focusing less on relationship-type discussion and much more on self-improvement and relating to women for its short-term benefits. Hopefully I can follow my own advice, but most of all I'd like this to be a very open discussion about how other people find this type of situation.
Dating Philosophy vs. Relationship Philosophy:
As I stated before in my post Who here wants a girlfriend?, there are four main points one should focus on:
#1: Augmenting Yourself
#2: Getting out There
#3: Dealing with Women
#4: The Late Game
Let Future You Worry about the Late Game:
I stick by these points, except that you can forget about #4. You should not care at all about a long term situation until you've been dating someone for what starts to feel like a little while (+3-4 months at first, and then over 2 years for super-long-term thought).
Many guys in and around high school get their heads filled with thoughts of being with someone forever when they've barely talked with the girl. Everyone would like to meet and keep the kind of girl you know you'd marry instantly. But you can't get to the Moon until you've left the atmosphere, so stay focused on getting your Saturn V rocket into the dark void of space first.
And that's pretty much it. Even girls that aren't shallow are still capable of being shallow, so your best bet is to play it safe by being the best you can be. You are selling them a product and that product is yourself, so don't let poor craftsmanship bring you down.
Read the previous thread! That's where all the advice is.
P.S.: + Show Spoiler +I use the term dating interchangeably with any other expression that means to link up with someone for any activity ranging from having sex to sharing a coffee together. There's little difference other than how far you're able to get the other person to go, and it's a victory either way, just with a different magnitude.
P.P.S.:+ Show Spoiler +I will amend this as time goes by, so don't jump all over me right away - ask for clarification. I'm really tired and just want to get this post out the door, mostly. And let it be clear that I love and respect women; my mother is a saint and my oma is the toughest person I know. I'm just a realist when it comes to dating.
Last edit: 2011-05-18 21:32:00
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| synapse China. May 18 2011 12:32. Posts 6924 | Profile Blog # | |
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| obesechicken13 United States. May 18 2011 12:52. Posts 4260 | Profile Blog # |
Who here wants to have sex with a girl?
On May 18 2011 12:32 synapse wrote:
OOOHH MEE PICK MEEE
I was here first!
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 CurLy[] United States. May 18 2011 13:38. Posts 758 | Profile # |
| We came here for sex, not to read your stupid blog.................. Last edit: 2011-05-18 13:38:58 |
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| Probulous Australia. May 18 2011 13:50. Posts 3784 | Profile Blog # |
On May 18 2011 13:38 CurLy[] wrote:
We came here for sex, not to read your stupid blog..................
Damn right!
Oh well I can wait a couple hours.
Booyah! |
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| Trozz Canada. May 18 2011 13:51. Posts 2180 | Profile Blog # |
Look at the view count.
It's gunna skyrocket now.
Imbalanced thread name. |
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| Chairman Ray Canada. May 18 2011 14:13. Posts 7384 | Profile Blog # |
| Having sex with girls is old school. Having sex with guys is the new having sex with girls. Check out the Nada's body thread and you'll be wanting to have sex with guys in no time! |
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| Probulous Australia. May 18 2011 14:45. Posts 3784 | Profile Blog # |
On May 18 2011 14:13 Chairman Ray wrote:
Having sex with girls is old school. Having sex with guys is the new having sex with girls. Check out the Nada's body thread and you'll be wanting to have sex with guys in no time!
But how many Nada's are there? Prepare for disappointment IRL. |
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| ReketSomething United States. May 18 2011 15:03. Posts 4016 | Profile Blog # |
| imba thread name indeed......... |
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| nayumi Vietnam. May 18 2011 16:44. Posts 4692 | Profile Blog # |
| i hate this kind of blog, gonna 1/5 it if you don't post anything constructive to us horny nerds ... -_- |
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| iPlaY.NettleS Australia. May 18 2011 16:59. Posts 1495 | Profile Blog # |
| or uhh just cough up 80 bucks or so? lol |
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| snozberry United States. May 18 2011 17:05. Posts 109 | Profile # |
| hmm yeah your build seems viable assuming your opponent plays standard, the problem seems to lie in dealing with any early game pressure and a general lack of scouting, also most people are afraid of sex 1v1 laddering to begin with and prefer the single player campaign bc of its reliability and lack of rejection/ragequitting defeat |
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| annul United States. May 18 2011 17:21. Posts 2741 | Profile Blog # |
"so stay focused on getting your Saturn V rocket into the dark void of space first."
yeah, get your "rocket" into her "dark void of space" alright! |
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