AzureEye   United States. November 05 2009 08:15. Posts 1164 | Profile Blog |
So I have this situation where my ex-friend (we used to be cool but now we hate each other) is cheating on his girlfriend with another girl at my school. Obviously, I want to get him caught and have both girls leave him and have his friends hate him (best scenario).
We'll call my ex-friend A His girlfriend B His newly found interest C
I don't have direct evidence of him cheating like photograph or video taped evidence which is a bit disappointing. But I have people who are witnesses that will help expose. What is the best way to expose him in this situation? Here is what I've planned:
Get the phone number of person C and talk to her about this situation. Explain to her that the guy that she is seeing already has a girlfriend and she is just another victim. Arrange a meeting secretly between C and B.
Talk to B and explain to her that her boyfriend is cheating with C. Arrange a meeting secretly between C and B.
Now, if the two girls meet, I suspect that it will be enormous pressure and emotional for both of them. What is the best way to carry out this situation?
The only problem I have is that if C has already become madly in love with A, then this meeting won't do much, it will only help 1 girl leave the guy. Should I try to make C feel guilty by saying that continuing this affair will only kill your reputation as the bad person?
To finalize the damage, would it be too much to make a Facebook event carrying all this information, and "invite" all his important friends to see it?
I know I'm doing it for my selfish reasons but its better for both girls if this guy gets exposed.
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Lemonwalrus   United States. November 05 2009 08:19. Posts 3044 | Profile Blog |
| C probably knows he has a girlfriend, and the facebook event thing will just make you look like a gigantic douche to everybody forever. |
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Sprite   United States. November 05 2009 08:20. Posts 903 | Profile |
| Why do you care? Other than you hating him why even waste your time. That's like being worse than gossip girls. Thanks for banning me btw way to go! *HIGHFIVE* Last edit: 2009-11-05 09:55:40 |
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AzureEye   United States. November 05 2009 08:21. Posts 1164 | Profile Blog |
On November 05 2009 08:19 Lemonwalrus wrote: C probably knows he has a girlfriend, and the facebook event thing will just make you look like a gigantic douche to everybody forever.
No, I highly doubt C knows he has a girlfriend. And what is your reasoning?
I forgot to mention I don't give a shit if people think I'm a douche so thats not a problem |
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AzureEye   United States. November 05 2009 08:22. Posts 1164 | Profile Blog |
On November 05 2009 08:20 Sprite wrote: Why do you care? Other than you hating him why even waste your time. That's like being worse than gossip girls.
I asked for tips, not for why I should do it. Banned from my blogs. |
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Lemonwalrus   United States. November 05 2009 08:25. Posts 3044 | Profile Blog |
| Idk, just in my experience the girl/guy that the person is cheating with usually knows about the girlfriend/boyfriend. But you know the situation better than I do. |
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anderoo   Canada. November 05 2009 08:26. Posts 1601 | Profile Blog |
| i think that you should just let your vendetta against him go, yeah he's a douche bag for cheating on his girlfriend but you guys aren't even friends anymore so it's none of your business |
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Lemonwalrus   United States. November 05 2009 08:27. Posts 3044 | Profile Blog |
| Also this will probably end in a fight between you and A, so just make sure you can take him before you do something that will make it obvious that you did this. Last edit: 2009-11-05 08:27:12 |
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Draconizard   United States. November 05 2009 08:28. Posts 227 | Profile |
On November 05 2009 08:22 AzureEye wrote: Show nested quote +On November 05 2009 08:20 Sprite wrote: Why do you care? Other than you hating him why even waste your time. That's like being worse than gossip girls.
I asked for tips, not for why I should do it. Banned from my blogs.
Well, someone's touchy on the subject. If you were to provide some more information about this "ex-friend A", specifically why he deserves your enmity, perhaps people would be more forthcoming with revenge advice? |
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maga33   United States. November 05 2009 08:30. Posts 108 | Profile |
| It's none of ur business, just leave him alone. |
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Scaramanga   Australia. November 05 2009 08:31. Posts 4250 | Profile Blog |
| Get cheaters on the case? |
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AzureEye   United States. November 05 2009 08:31. Posts 1164 | Profile Blog |
Why I hate the douche is a story too long I don't feel like going into. But let me just say that he used to be a really good friend of mine. And good friendships that turn bad are usually the worst.
But I just want to make it clear, I really don't mind getting into a fight with him.
Does anyone have experience with this sort of thing |
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PanN   United States. November 05 2009 08:34. Posts 406 | Profile |
On November 05 2009 08:31 AzureEye wrote: Why I hate the douche is a story too long I don't feel like going into. But let me just say that he used to be a really good friend of mine. And good friendships that turn bad are usually the worst.
But I just want to make it clear, I really don't mind getting into a fight with him.
Does anyone have experience with this sort of thing
At the very end, when everyone is crying etc, you can tie his shoes together! |
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EsX_Raptor   United States. November 05 2009 08:35. Posts 1719 | Profile Blog |
My best tip to you, would be to think on how this will help you 10 years... no... 1 month from now?
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tobi9999   United States. November 05 2009 08:38. Posts 226 | Profile |
Confront C and tell him that she's being cheated on and say bad things about A Direct her to both A and B Confront B and pretend that A isn't with her anymore. Direct her to A
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Lemonwalrus   United States. November 05 2009 08:42. Posts 3044 | Profile Blog |
| If you could somehow get all 3 of them on the same elevator and then cause it to get stuck between floors, well then I think you win a trophy or something. |
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Nytefish   United Kingdom. November 05 2009 08:43. Posts 1839 | Profile Blog |
| Sounds like a lot of pointless trouble, I'd play starcraft instead. |
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AzureEye   United States. November 05 2009 08:43. Posts 1164 | Profile Blog |
| Personally, I don't think its a good idea to have A in the same meeting as B and C when I talk to them. He can make up lies and excuses on the spot and try to argue my motives. |
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DyEnasTy   United States. November 05 2009 08:45. Posts 115 | Profile Blog |
| Dude just tell B. If you think she wont believe you, have the people who told you A was cheating on B come foward and back you up. The worse case scenario is B will find out about C, and A will get B and C in a threesome. |
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nebffa   Australia. November 05 2009 08:47. Posts 260 | Profile Blog |
| haha if people find find out youre being manipulative it could blow up in your face with hilarious (for us) results |
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