 nimysa United States. November 05 2009 11:15. Posts 346 | Profile Blog | |
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 SanguineToss Canada. November 05 2009 11:18. Posts 478 | Profile Blog | |
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 JohnColtrane November 05 2009 11:18. Posts 1713 | Profile Blog | |
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 Snet  United States. November 05 2009 11:19. Posts 2929 | Profile Blog |
| Take it step by step. The more you socialize the easier it becomes. You can't expect that magical word of advice from someone that fixes everything, just get out there and start getting some experience. |
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| wok United States. November 05 2009 11:20. Posts 384 | Profile Blog |
Welcome to my life. Waste time photoshopping stupid images and post them here hoping, fruitlessly, for a lulz somewhere in the vast expanse of the internets.
Then when refreshing the page a few hundred times yields no satisfactory response, resume the hopeless situation that is a 10-page paper due tomorrow.
Fuck, I better get started. |
| | I'll race you to defeatism... you win. |
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| kidd United States. November 05 2009 11:20. Posts 2090 | Profile Blog |
I truely believe that if you learn to convince yourself that you are actually not that bad of a person and that you have something to offer to others then the rest will come naturally.
Chances are you aren't even as bad and lonely as you perceive and changing your style of thinking will reflect that. |
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 KurtistheTurtle United States. November 05 2009 11:20. Posts 448 | Profile Blog |
| Do it in chunks, a little every day. Increase the amount every week. |
| | A clean tie attracts the soup of the day |
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 CaucasianAsian United States. November 05 2009 11:21. Posts 5322 | Profile Blog |
| get a job where you are forced to interact with people, like a cashier or a waiter. maybe at a subway or quiznos where it's simple easy chit-chat that you are forced to do for like 5 min. max |
| | Song of the week or November 11 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FE8cvSaO9uE |
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| JohnColtrane November 05 2009 11:22. Posts 1713 | Profile Blog |
| youll be fine once you get more comfortable. just loosen up, it doesnt matter if you make a fool of yourself |
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 DeathSpank United States. November 05 2009 11:22. Posts 671 | Profile Blog |
| stop caring. Your life will change. |
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| get good at something..really good |
| | You nocturnal deathsick moon, there on the sky's black pillow. Your gaze, gross with fever, enchants me like alien melody... |
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 PH United States. November 05 2009 11:24. Posts 3415 | Profile Blog |
| Getting a job helps a lot, like CaucasionAsian said. You don't even need to work as a cashier or waiter (those kinds of jobs generally are for people with experience only, or you need to work up to it for at least several months). Simply being somewhere where you need to interact with other people (your coworkers) will help. |
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| choboPEon United States. November 05 2009 11:26. Posts 5151 | Profile Blog |
| join a club or get a job. give yourself social obligations and things will improve. |
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| Ilikestarcraft United States. November 05 2009 11:31. Posts 11486 | Profile |
| meet me ^^ Last edit: 2009-11-05 11:38:08 |
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| dasanivan United States. November 05 2009 11:36. Posts 256 | Profile Blog |
| I agree with PH; get a job involving interaction with people. You just need practice interacting with people. Practice can help you get better at almost anything. |
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| Whiplash United States. November 05 2009 11:37. Posts 305 | Profile Blog |
| a club or your job is your best bet. make sure the club is something your passionate about. |
| | Hey all u good players out there play my campaign Ascension of Duran: http://www.campaigncreations.org/starcraft/ascension_of_duran |
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 Equaoh Canada. November 05 2009 11:38. Posts 237 | Profile |
| The most complicated jokes I make with my friends involve making funny faces and going olololololol. You should relax and you'll see you're as capable of connecting with people as anyone else - it's all in your head. |
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 meeple Canada. November 05 2009 11:48. Posts 1526 | Profile Blog |
On November 05 2009 11:31 Ilikestarcraft wrote:
meet me ^^
how is it possible that you have quint-digit posts and a scv as your icon?
to OP: introverted people are all around you... basically find something that makes you happy. Sports/clubs/starcraft... it doesn't matter too much that you're not social... lots of people aren't. |
| | Into the fray my friends, may our feet be swift, our hands be sure, and our necks keep a firm grasp on our heads. |
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 Kyuukyuu Canada. November 05 2009 11:49. Posts 1195 | Profile |
On November 05 2009 11:38 Equaoh wrote:
The most complicated jokes I make with my friends involve making funny faces and going olololololol.
wtf rofl
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 cunninglinguists United States. November 05 2009 11:50. Posts 636 | Profile Blog |
| i think its weird that although i have a lot of "friends," i dont have a lot of friends. |
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