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"Friendzone" Myth?

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 Try   United States. July 21 2010 12:13. Posts 1270
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Last edit: 2011-01-24 12:59:29


Wtf is a Dark Swarm
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  wishbones   Canada. July 21 2010 12:20. Posts 2601Profile Blog # 
no your not missing anything, just reading too much and listening too much. Heres the truth, those who talk about the friendzone heard about the friendzone, those who hear4d about it talked about it, and so on and so forth, guess where it started? On american pie 1.

thats my best example. tv controls us and we love to listen to her, cus she is afterall SEXY as fuck.

if someone says i dont want to date you cus we are too good of friends, she obviously isnt interested in dating you and thats that, it has nothing to do with a good friendship.
Last edit: 2010-07-21 12:21:18
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 AcrossFiveJulys   United States. July 21 2010 12:20. Posts 3593
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I think to some extent, being "friendzoned" is a euphemism for "she's not interested in you".
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  Rekrul   Korea (South). July 21 2010 12:20. Posts 16546Profile Blog # 
'you're in the friendzone' is another word for 'this girl doesn't want to fuck you'

the thing you're missing is that girls will often say "OH HES A GREAT FRIEND" or "HES MY BEST FRIEND" about guys they actually want to fuck from time to time

close thread
why so 진지해?
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  RAUS   July 21 2010 12:20. Posts 210Profile Blog # 
friend zone is synonymous with "unattractive." friendzone are friends that you're completely unattractive to, which doesnt have to be the case. Many good friends have some sort of sexual attraction, but its hard to "become" attractive after a girl is accustomed to you being unsexy.
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 Murkyith14   United States. July 21 2010 12:22. Posts 111
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The same stuff happens in my life man. In my past relationships, usually I was friends with the girl first, sometimes for over a year. Clearly, the "friendzone" doesn't mean "you have no chance."
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 Try   United States. July 21 2010 12:23. Posts 1270
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On July 21 2010 12:20 Rekrul wrote:
'you're in the friendzone' is another word for 'this girl doesn't want to fuck you'

the thing you're missing is that girls will often say "OH HES A GREAT FRIEND" or "HES MY BEST FRIEND" about guys they actually want to fuck from time to time

close thread

Thank you Rekrul for clearing up my misconception.

However, on TL girl threads I keep seeing "You took too long, she's friendzoned you" like friendzone is a function of time rather than fuckability.
Last edit: 2010-07-21 12:23:50
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 Ludrik   Australia. July 21 2010 12:25. Posts 523
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This will explain all your friendzone troubles. www.laddertheory.com
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  wishbones   Canada. July 21 2010 12:26. Posts 2601Profile Blog # 
yeah if you let this friend(girl) see youra complete pompass ass, who would want that lol. derp made a pretty good point, when you first meet a girl she interested, then the more you let her see how stupid or unclean or broke, or just loserish you are, whats there to want? So for some, the sooner the better, for others its not that big of a deal cus they are legit guys.
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  Divinek   Canada. July 21 2010 12:26. Posts 4016Profile Blog # 

On July 21 2010 12:23 Try wrote:

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Thank you Rekrul for clearing up my misconception.

However, on TL girl threads I keep seeing "You took too long, she's friendzoned you" like friendzone is a function of time rather than fuckability.


nah it's just a term that got overgeneralized to situations where it doesnt apply. That and there's alot of spineless people out there so they use that as an excuse etc etc

tl girl threads are places you should never go in the first place...but somehow they draw you in
Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity.
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  Rekrul   Korea (South). July 21 2010 12:29. Posts 16546Profile Blog # 

On July 21 2010 12:23 Try wrote:

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Thank you Rekrul for clearing up my misconception.

However, on TL girl threads I keep seeing "You took too long, she's friendzoned you" like friendzone is a function of time rather than fuckability.


it's neither, it's a matter of perception. often times a male could have possibly gotten in a girls pants and become her bf if he acted correctly in the right amount of time...but for w/e reason he acted like a pussy/douche and doesn't and the girl stoped respecting him

that of course doesn't mean u can't regain a girls respect and attraction

this all of course is very obvious to anyone with a brain, but sometimes ppl here like to make blogs saying OMG DOES SHE LIKE ME? and even dumber people like to act cool saying 'no dude, ur in the friend zone, game over'

though, if u make a blog complaining about friendzone likely u r in it and will never get out
why so 진지해?
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 Hidden_MotiveS   Canada. July 21 2010 12:31. Posts 2019
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I think what you are missing is that the friend zone term is (or should if it isn't) only be used to describe the situation you are in after you stop dating someone, or you just meet someone and you go on a date with them, and they call you a "nice friend".
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 baller   July 21 2010 12:31. Posts 526
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i have the opposite problem. i try to make friends with girls, and i hear if u hang out with them long enough u can become their friends, but i always get fuckzoned so fast. does any1 have any tips, bc im seriously a noob at not fucking girls within a few days of meeting them. how do i avoid this fuckzone?
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 Kalingingsong   Canada. July 21 2010 12:32. Posts 577
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However, my RL experiences completely contradict what is apparently common knowledge. The girl I am currently seeing I've known for nearly a year, and one of my best friends just started dating a girl who he was really good friends with throughout all of high school (4 years!). I can name tons of other instances where "good friends" have gone onto serious relationships; is there something I'm missing here?


How hot you are is inversely proportional to how fast you get into the friend zone.

If you are a really hot guy, you will not get friendzoned ever, if you are ugly and unattractive, then you can be her "friend" instead.

so the advice is:

-be hot
-be sexy
-don't be not hot and not sexy
Dess.JadeFalcon
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  wishbones   Canada. July 21 2010 12:38. Posts 2601Profile Blog # 
just remember this bro, if you dont take any risks life can be pretty fucking boring so take a shot, and no pussin around.
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 Severedevil   United States. July 21 2010 12:52. Posts 4498
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On July 21 2010 12:31 baller wrote:
i have the opposite problem. i try to make friends with girls, and i hear if u hang out with them long enough u can become their friends, but i always get fuckzoned so fast. does any1 have any tips, bc im seriously a noob at not fucking girls within a few days of meeting them. how do i avoid this fuckzone?

You have three options.

1) Be whiny and passive-aggressive
2) Claim to be homosexual*
3) Hang around women who are more attractive/confident

I prefer option (3) since you win even if it fails.

*: Only works if you're a dude.
My strategy is to fork people.
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 d3_crescentia   United States. July 21 2010 12:53. Posts 3661
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On July 21 2010 12:52 Severedevil wrote:

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You have three options.

1) Be whiny and passive-aggressive
2) Claim to be homosexual*
3) Hang around women who are more attractive/confident

I prefer option (3) since you win even if it fails.

*: Only works if you're a dude.

4) tell them you have aids
once, not long ago, there was a moon here
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 Comeh   United States. July 21 2010 12:55. Posts 3772
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On July 21 2010 12:31 baller wrote:
i have the opposite problem. i try to make friends with girls, and i hear if u hang out with them long enough u can become their friends, but i always get fuckzoned so fast. does any1 have any tips, bc im seriously a noob at not fucking girls within a few days of meeting them. how do i avoid this fuckzone?

I have this same problem.
Your really only solution is either start complaining about an std you don't have or sound like a whiny pansy fuck (pretend like its a sc2 forum).
Also, its hard not to love baller.

On July 21 2010 12:52 Severedevil wrote:

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This may not necessarily work, merely because you are so off limits they will want to have sex with you. If they see you dating / sexing another woman, they will jump on you immediately. Similar psychology to women loving men with girlfriends.
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 mOnion   United States. July 21 2010 12:59. Posts 4926
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if you're attractive then you have nothing to worry about

if you're like me and in the middle, then you're not allowed to be funny out of the gate, if so you enter immediate friend zone territory.

its taken my 6 years to learn all about the friend zone and I am the fucking KING of the friend zone, with a LOOOOOT of girls. I was awarded class clown at a 5A high school with 800 people, and I was friends with ALL the girls, only dated 3.

friend zone not a myth, you're either attractive or not that funny
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 Kezzer   United States. July 21 2010 13:04. Posts 1260
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On July 21 2010 12:29 Rekrul wrote:

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it's neither, it's a matter of perception. often times a male could have possibly gotten in a girls pants and become her bf if he acted correctly in the right amount of time...but for w/e reason he acted like a pussy/douche and doesn't and the girl stoped respecting him

that of course doesn't mean u can't regain a girls respect and attraction

this all of course is very obvious to anyone with a brain, but sometimes ppl here like to make blogs saying OMG DOES SHE LIKE ME? and even dumber people like to act cool saying 'no dude, ur in the friend zone, game over'

though, if u make a blog complaining about friendzone likely u r in it and will never get out



so true lol
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