Closure [Girl Blog]

A while back I posted about interpreting how a conversation went on facebook. I know a lot of you thought it was creepy that I posted the conversation and looking back on it, I would not have done it again. Anyways, I wound up sending another message to her and it lead to things from there, I got her number and we were texting each other a lot throughout the day for about a two month time period. Things were going good and I was hoping to ask her to prom.

Eventually she stopped responding to me and I facebook messaged her with some passive-aggressive response after not responding to me for a few days about how "life moves on" and how I was moving on from her. She then replied about how she was busy as to why she had not responded. Knowing that I had done the wrong thing, I decided to wait a few days and I sent her the sweetest text message I ever have in my life telling her "I wished to continue talking to her but if she won't that she is ( insert positive adjectives) and that I wished her the best in life. For three weeks I heard nothing from her until tonight.

She sent me a text message telling me happy birthday and telling me that she took what I said to heart. She then told me that she had been busy the past three weeks and also told me that due to the distance between us (3.5 - 4 hour drive) that it wouldn't be realistic for us to hang out. She also told me that we lead different life styles and she didn't want me to judge her for that. She then preceded to unload a lot of positive adjectives on me and wished me the best in life.

tl;dr I spent a couple months talking to not only the hottest girl; but also the girl I have connected with the most in my life, only to screw it up, try to make it right, then get a sweet text from her three weeks later giving me the closure I needed to move on in life.

Last edit: 2012-03-15 13:53:23

Antimatterz United States. March 15 2012 12:24. Posts 998

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That was so depressing/happy I feel completely neutral right now.

wtf.

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caradoc Canada. March 15 2012 12:30. Posts 2891

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Wow. Nice girl. In my experience that's pretty rare and awesome.

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Whatson United States. March 15 2012 12:32. Posts 4448

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Story of my life...or a sad/happy part of my life at least -.-

Battleaxe United States. March 15 2012 12:42. Posts 746

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Somehow this is incredibly deep..

glad to see you got some closure though

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Nabes Canada. March 15 2012 12:51. Posts 1676

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That feel when you hope you find someone like that again.

krndandaman Mozambique. March 15 2012 12:53. Posts 4360

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pretty nice of the girl. sucks, but there are many other high quality girls like her out there ^^

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Servius_Fulvius United States. March 15 2012 13:32. Posts 947

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You got a lot more than I would have expected. Nice!

Life moves on. But please, move on from the stupid facebook crap (for everyone's sake!).

Passive aggressive posts and make-up texts are very open to misinterpretation. Plus the timeline is aweful since you get responses that are few and far in between.

MaV_gGSC Canada. March 15 2012 14:01. Posts 1306

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mmmm

Life's good :D

dAPhREAk Nauru. March 15 2012 14:13. Posts 8698

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3.5-4 hours away. wow. when i was looking, i wouldnt even talk to people who were an hour away. you got some dedication there.

edit. damnit, i wanted to see your other blog but you edited it out!!

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Livelovedie United States. March 15 2012 14:20. Posts 138

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Thanks for the responses... yeah I have the same depressed happy feeling right now... though its mostly happy because I understand more so what happened now instead of always wondering.

On March 15 2012 14:13 dAPhREAk wrote:
3.5-4 hours away. wow. when i was looking, i wouldnt even talk to people who were an hour away. you got some dedication there.

edit. damnit, i wanted to see your other blog but you edited it out!!

Well she worked with me for two summers as a lifeguard so in the summer she lived in my area, but is off at college now. If you really wanna see the conversation I can PM it too you though its not like its relevant anymore.

dAPhREAk Nauru. March 15 2012 14:29. Posts 8698

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On March 15 2012 14:20 Livelovedie wrote:
Thanks for the responses... yeah I have the same depressed happy feeling right now... though its mostly happy because I understand more so what happened now instead of always wondering.

Show nested quote +

you still in high school? if so, there is a whole world of women waiting for you. college is huge skin market.

DocM United States. March 15 2012 14:34. Posts 187

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On March 15 2012 14:29 dAPhREAk wrote:

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you still in high school? if so, there is a whole world of women waiting for you. college is huge skin market.

Bringing high school girls to college is like bringing a bucket of sand to the beach. It's gonna be really heavy and weigh you down, and there is a fuckton of sand when you get there.

Livelovedie United States. March 15 2012 14:49. Posts 138

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On March 15 2012 14:29 dAPhREAk wrote:

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you still in high school? if so, there is a whole world of women waiting for you. college is huge skin market.

Yeah I'm a senior in high school... she was two years older than me in college. Yep, I'm looking forward to high school being over.

RogerX New Zealand. March 15 2012 18:21. Posts 2488

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Optical, where the hell are you?

Well, I guess he only solves problems. hm.

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Hidden_MotiveS Canada. March 15 2012 18:28. Posts 2019

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Solidarity fellow liquidian.

On March 15 2012 14:29 dAPhREAk wrote:

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you still in high school? if so, there is a whole world of women waiting for you. college is huge skin market.

Fucking Engineering D:<<<<<<<<<<

Black[CAT] Malaysia. March 15 2012 19:50. Posts 2537

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On March 15 2012 12:53 krndandaman wrote:
pretty nice of the girl. sucks, but there are many other high quality girls like her out there ^^

High quality girls with the high quality looks? Heh....they have extinct. Or taken by some guy who is highly prolly not deserving.

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OpticalShot Canada. March 15 2012 23:23. Posts 5929

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On March 15 2012 18:21 RogerX wrote:
Optical, where the hell are you?

Well, I guess he only solves problems. hm.

Hello,

I was 1) gaming last night 2) sleeping 3) saw this blog when I was eating breakfast but I left it for later as I was late already 4) drove to work 5) working now 6) now I can check and read and heheheh

I appreciate all the girl blogs on TL. Most of them have great entertainment value, for starters. Then there are people with awesome advices, troll attempts, and all sorts of other replies that make the thread shine. When the OP follows it up with what happened later, the satisfaction is "complete" for that particular blog, and the crowd moves on to the next.

This one... well, the story did not have a satisfactory ending. That is for sure. I'm sure all of us at TL sincerely wished the best for the OP (to get together with this girl / make things happen). 3.5-4 hour drive is indeed a long distance, but one of my friends is in a LDR which is about 5 hour drive (more like 3 because he fucking steps 130-150 km/h on an open highway). He goes over once every two weeks or so, you know, for some sexy time and shit. Sometimes they meet at a mid-point (which is the city where I live in) to spend time together. I am personally not up to such a challenge, and therefore cannot recommend it on a personal level. However, that friend and his girlfriend have been together for 1000+ days now. What am I trying to say? Some people can make it work.

As for how the shit went down, what's done is done and it's best to think more for the future. It is most likely that you'll find another that suits in similar ways. Maybe you'll find someone completely different but yet completely awesome too. I do recommend you keep in touch with this girl though, she sounds like a good person.

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Kukaracha France. March 16 2012 06:51. Posts 1890

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You made Kwark mad.

On March 15 2012 13:23 KwarK wrote:
Hey fuck guys! Remember when blogs used to be not shit with actual awesome crap in it rather than some girl being stalked on facebook.
What happened man!?
Fuck!

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