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| PandaTank South Africa. April 16 2012 06:31. Posts 229 | Profile Blog # |
| She doesn't have facebook? Sounds like a catch! |
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| cmen15 United States. April 16 2012 06:34. Posts 1461 | Profile Blog # |
On April 16 2012 06:31 PandaTank wrote:
She doesn't have facebook? Sounds like a catch!
THIS^^ Find her and hold on for dear life : ) |
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| Servius_Fulvius United States. April 16 2012 06:42. Posts 947 | Profile # |
Not having facebook may actually be a positive. You will be forced to learn about her through personal interaction instead of stalking the crap out of her online or talking through a typed media.
You could try and track her down and it's up to you if the effort is worth your while. |
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| darthfoley United States. April 16 2012 06:54. Posts 2268 | Profile Blog # |
hey man! this sounds like me, i had the same problem.
never found her, always been one of those "what ifs" for me. I eventually got over it though. PM if you need to |
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 SeaSwift Scotland. April 16 2012 06:56. Posts 4485 | Profile Blog # |
On April 16 2012 04:25 PenguinWithNuke wrote:
I'm was kinda thinking that she was interested in me (IDK why the fuck she'd be though) because she hung out with me instead of with her own friends.
Yeah. If she wants to hang out with you instead of her own friends, she is definitely into you.
Just keep looking for her sister on facebook, try to find her friends and ask where she lives/whatever. Like what everyone else has already said, you have everything to gain and nothing to lose. Then, just need to get some item of clothing that seems plausible, head over and say something along the lines of "Hi, don't know if you remember me, did you happen to leave this when we were at [X place] together?"
Don't be afraid to be what would normally be seen as overly friendly. Like, if she says "Oh, sorry, that's not mine, blaa blaa blaa" then say "do you mind if I come in? [Insert excuse about weather being cold/whatever]" then just talk for a while and see how things go.
It'll work out  Last edit: 2012-04-16 06:57:13 |
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| Bigtony United States. April 16 2012 07:18. Posts 901 | Profile Blog # |
On April 16 2012 06:19 Rice wrote:
Show nested quote +On April 16 2012 04:53 PenguinWithNuke wrote:
On April 16 2012 04:29 Firebolt145 wrote:
Why give up? Find her, shouldn't be difficult. Ask whoever it was that introduced you to her for a way to contact her.
I guess I could, but wouldn't it be creepy to do that?
On April 16 2012 04:30 lisward wrote:
There's no way you can meet her again? I mean if a girl goes out of her way to hang out with you instead of her friends it's definitely a sign.
Very unlikely. She's 1.5 hours away from me and we don't do the same sports. Her school is also in different division than mine is.
On April 16 2012 04:30 arb wrote:
Ask her friends get to give her your number and text you or whatever the fuck.
Don't know her friends
On April 16 2012 04:38 TheKefka wrote:
Wait.Stop the fucking everything.A girl at this day and age that doesn't have facebook?
Where do you find one like that lol,only girl I thought that doesn't have facebook nowadays is my grandma.
Holy first world problem >.>
Parents don't let her have one. Her (older) sister does but I can't seem to find it. Probably because I'm retarded.
On April 16 2012 04:46 rotinegg wrote:
find her, pursue her, and if you cant, you dont deserve her.
How do I do this in a way that isn't creepy?
.... there are a couple of things that can happen here a) you make no effort to do anything for fear of being a "creep" and you have 0 chance at a relationship b) she thinks you're a creep, who cares atleast you tried c) you get to talk to her point being, there is ABSOLUTELY no difference between being considered a creep and not being considered a creep, if you dont get to talk to her anyways its pretty obvious bro, you cant just be scared of everything
Go for it dude.
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| PenguinWithNuke April 16 2012 08:09. Posts 247 | Profile Blog # |
On April 16 2012 06:27 Firebolt145 wrote:
Show nested quote +On April 16 2012 04:53 PenguinWithNuke wrote:
On April 16 2012 04:29 Firebolt145 wrote:
Why give up? Find her, shouldn't be difficult. Ask whoever it was that introduced you to her for a way to contact her.
I guess I could, but wouldn't it be creepy to do that?
Why? I don't know how old you are, but it doesn't matter. Ask the guy that introduced you for her number, if he asks why, just say you found her interesting. Approach it maturely, your friend will approach it maturely as well. Then call her up and say 'hey I'm that guy you met at so-and-so, and I asked my friend for your number. Wanna hang out some time?' It may seem difficult to do, but it's a straightforward and mature approach, and she'll see it that way too.
That's the problem. I have no way to get her number because I don't know anyone who was with her.
She wasn't introduced by someone--she introduced herself.
On April 16 2012 07:18 Bigtony wrote:
Show nested quote +On April 16 2012 06:19 Rice wrote:
On April 16 2012 04:53 PenguinWithNuke wrote:
On April 16 2012 04:29 Firebolt145 wrote:
Why give up? Find her, shouldn't be difficult. Ask whoever it was that introduced you to her for a way to contact her.
I guess I could, but wouldn't it be creepy to do that?
On April 16 2012 04:30 lisward wrote:
There's no way you can meet her again? I mean if a girl goes out of her way to hang out with you instead of her friends it's definitely a sign.
Very unlikely. She's 1.5 hours away from me and we don't do the same sports. Her school is also in different division than mine is.
On April 16 2012 04:30 arb wrote:
Ask her friends get to give her your number and text you or whatever the fuck.
Don't know her friends
On April 16 2012 04:38 TheKefka wrote:
Wait.Stop the fucking everything.A girl at this day and age that doesn't have facebook?
Where do you find one like that lol,only girl I thought that doesn't have facebook nowadays is my grandma.
Holy first world problem >.>
Parents don't let her have one. Her (older) sister does but I can't seem to find it. Probably because I'm retarded.
On April 16 2012 04:46 rotinegg wrote:
find her, pursue her, and if you cant, you dont deserve her.
How do I do this in a way that isn't creepy?
.... there are a couple of things that can happen here a) you make no effort to do anything for fear of being a "creep" and you have 0 chance at a relationship b) she thinks you're a creep, who cares atleast you tried c) you get to talk to her point being, there is ABSOLUTELY no difference between being considered a creep and not being considered a creep, if you dont get to talk to her anyways its pretty obvious bro, you cant just be scared of everything
Go for it dude.
Thanks Rice. I needed that.Last edit: 2012-04-16 08:10:32 |
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| Marti April 16 2012 08:28. Posts 543 | Profile # |
On April 16 2012 05:03 rotinegg wrote:
Asking her friends that introduced her to you would be a start. Oftentimes, what's creepy to an outsider can be cute/flattering to the girl, and if she did like you, she won't find it creepy.
Except the twilight-style watching her sleep, even bisu can't pull this one off, that shit definately doesn't work. |
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| PenguinWithNuke April 16 2012 08:30. Posts 247 | Profile Blog # |
On April 16 2012 06:24 Bruky wrote:
My advice would be to give up on her. Long distance relationship just doesn't work out very well most of the times. You should try to find a girl you can actually spend your time with. In my opinion there is even something wrong with her in the first place. If she doesnt have facebook, she is weird. Its sad but it is true. Even the nerdest nerds have fb nowdays. In my opinion she is lying about her facebook and she just dont want to add you or she is weird. I dont understand how can parents ban you from making facebook account, just make one secretly or under false name or idk. Feels pretty impossible to prohibit it.
So tbh you should let her go. It's just not worth it. There are plenty of girls everywhere just waiting to have bf. I would suggest you to pursue after her only if you have low self esteem and you are too shy to ask girl out. In that case it's good to gain at least some experience with girls even if it wont work out in long term.
She's not lying about her FB. If she had one, I could find it easily (a quick Google search shows me tons of links about her, but no FB). I'm not that naive. |
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| Erasme France. April 16 2012 08:42. Posts 4229 | Profile Blog # |
On April 16 2012 06:24 Bruky wrote:
My advice would be to give up on her. Long distance relationship just doesn't work out very well most of the times. You should try to find a girl you can actually spend your time with. In my opinion there is even something wrong with her in the first place. If she doesnt have facebook, she is weird. Its sad but it is true. Even the nerdest nerds have fb nowdays. In my opinion she is lying about her facebook and she just dont want to add you or she is weird. I dont understand how can parents ban you from making facebook account, just make one secretly or under false name or idk. Feels pretty impossible to prohibit it.
So tbh you should let her go. It's just not worth it. There are plenty of girls everywhere just waiting to have bf. I would suggest you to pursue after her only if you have low self esteem and you are too shy to ask girl out. In that case it's good to gain at least some experience with girls even if it wont work out in long term.
1h30 is not long distance ffs
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| PenguinWithNuke April 16 2012 08:57. Posts 247 | Profile Blog # |
On April 16 2012 08:42 Erasme wrote:
Show nested quote +On April 16 2012 06:24 Bruky wrote:
My advice would be to give up on her. Long distance relationship just doesn't work out very well most of the times. You should try to find a girl you can actually spend your time with. In my opinion there is even something wrong with her in the first place. If she doesnt have facebook, she is weird. Its sad but it is true. Even the nerdest nerds have fb nowdays. In my opinion she is lying about her facebook and she just dont want to add you or she is weird. I dont understand how can parents ban you from making facebook account, just make one secretly or under false name or idk. Feels pretty impossible to prohibit it.
So tbh you should let her go. It's just not worth it. There are plenty of girls everywhere just waiting to have bf. I would suggest you to pursue after her only if you have low self esteem and you are too shy to ask girl out. In that case it's good to gain at least some experience with girls even if it wont work out in long term.
1h30 is not long distance ffs
Explain and be more specific. It may not be a long distance for you, but as a high school student, it is for me. |
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| Firebolt145 United Kingdom. April 16 2012 09:10. Posts 12831 | Profile # |
On April 16 2012 08:09 PenguinWithNuke wrote:
Show nested quote +On April 16 2012 06:27 Firebolt145 wrote:
On April 16 2012 04:53 PenguinWithNuke wrote:
On April 16 2012 04:29 Firebolt145 wrote:
Why give up? Find her, shouldn't be difficult. Ask whoever it was that introduced you to her for a way to contact her.
I guess I could, but wouldn't it be creepy to do that?
Why? I don't know how old you are, but it doesn't matter. Ask the guy that introduced you for her number, if he asks why, just say you found her interesting. Approach it maturely, your friend will approach it maturely as well. Then call her up and say 'hey I'm that guy you met at so-and-so, and I asked my friend for your number. Wanna hang out some time?' It may seem difficult to do, but it's a straightforward and mature approach, and she'll see it that way too.
That's the problem. I have no way to get her number because I don't know anyone who was with her. She wasn't introduced by someone--she introduced herself.
Show nested quote +On April 16 2012 07:18 Bigtony wrote:
On April 16 2012 06:19 Rice wrote:
On April 16 2012 04:53 PenguinWithNuke wrote:
On April 16 2012 04:29 Firebolt145 wrote:
Why give up? Find her, shouldn't be difficult. Ask whoever it was that introduced you to her for a way to contact her.
I guess I could, but wouldn't it be creepy to do that?
On April 16 2012 04:30 lisward wrote:
There's no way you can meet her again? I mean if a girl goes out of her way to hang out with you instead of her friends it's definitely a sign.
Very unlikely. She's 1.5 hours away from me and we don't do the same sports. Her school is also in different division than mine is.
On April 16 2012 04:30 arb wrote:
Ask her friends get to give her your number and text you or whatever the fuck.
Don't know her friends
On April 16 2012 04:38 TheKefka wrote:
Wait.Stop the fucking everything.A girl at this day and age that doesn't have facebook?
Where do you find one like that lol,only girl I thought that doesn't have facebook nowadays is my grandma.
Holy first world problem >.>
Parents don't let her have one. Her (older) sister does but I can't seem to find it. Probably because I'm retarded.
On April 16 2012 04:46 rotinegg wrote:
find her, pursue her, and if you cant, you dont deserve her.
How do I do this in a way that isn't creepy?
.... there are a couple of things that can happen here a) you make no effort to do anything for fear of being a "creep" and you have 0 chance at a relationship b) she thinks you're a creep, who cares atleast you tried c) you get to talk to her point being, there is ABSOLUTELY no difference between being considered a creep and not being considered a creep, if you dont get to talk to her anyways its pretty obvious bro, you cant just be scared of everything
Go for it dude.
Thanks Rice. I needed that.
You have her name? Ask your friends, 'hey I met this girl named X on that night and I've been trying to get in contact with her, do you know her?' |
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| Homard Canada. April 16 2012 09:11. Posts 92 | Profile Blog # |
Classic over-analyzing. Just go for it you have nothing to lose. Think of it like an experiment or whatever the hell you have to think of it as to try something. If you don't try something you will regret it.
You worry about being a creep? Give her one shot and lay it out there the way you feel. She will love that shit. Tell her she is pretty or smart or whatever it is you like about her and just leave it at that.
If you are lucky you will meet again. There are positives and negatives to long distance. Try to focus on more then just the short term.
I don't believe you that you can't get a hold of her. Welcome to 2012. Get it done FFS.
Good luck. |
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| PartyBiscuit Canada. April 16 2012 09:24. Posts 4223 | Profile # |
On April 16 2012 04:53 PenguinWithNuke wrote:
Show nested quote +On April 16 2012 04:29 Firebolt145 wrote:
Why give up? Find her, shouldn't be difficult. Ask whoever it was that introduced you to her for a way to contact her.
I guess I could, but wouldn't it be creepy to do that?
I have no idea how this is creepy at all...as long as you don't keep waiting for a disproportionate amount of time, if you know of a friend/someone who can provide her a phone number or something, just call her up and say this is Blah from the other weekend and continue you're convo from there. This doesn't seem like a complicated situation at all compared. |
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| freelander Hungary. April 16 2012 09:30. Posts 3960 | Profile Blog # |
if you don't have the balls to do something about this situation, then just drop it.
is it really that hard to go there and ask her out? |
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| Inzek Chile. April 16 2012 10:00. Posts 787 | Profile Blog # |
On April 16 2012 09:10 Firebolt145 wrote:
Show nested quote +On April 16 2012 08:09 PenguinWithNuke wrote:
On April 16 2012 06:27 Firebolt145 wrote:
On April 16 2012 04:53 PenguinWithNuke wrote:
On April 16 2012 04:29 Firebolt145 wrote:
Why give up? Find her, shouldn't be difficult. Ask whoever it was that introduced you to her for a way to contact her.
I guess I could, but wouldn't it be creepy to do that?
Why? I don't know how old you are, but it doesn't matter. Ask the guy that introduced you for her number, if he asks why, just say you found her interesting. Approach it maturely, your friend will approach it maturely as well. Then call her up and say 'hey I'm that guy you met at so-and-so, and I asked my friend for your number. Wanna hang out some time?' It may seem difficult to do, but it's a straightforward and mature approach, and she'll see it that way too.
That's the problem. I have no way to get her number because I don't know anyone who was with her. She wasn't introduced by someone--she introduced herself.
On April 16 2012 07:18 Bigtony wrote:
On April 16 2012 06:19 Rice wrote:
On April 16 2012 04:53 PenguinWithNuke wrote:
On April 16 2012 04:29 Firebolt145 wrote:
Why give up? Find her, shouldn't be difficult. Ask whoever it was that introduced you to her for a way to contact her.
I guess I could, but wouldn't it be creepy to do that?
On April 16 2012 04:30 lisward wrote:
There's no way you can meet her again? I mean if a girl goes out of her way to hang out with you instead of her friends it's definitely a sign.
Very unlikely. She's 1.5 hours away from me and we don't do the same sports. Her school is also in different division than mine is.
On April 16 2012 04:30 arb wrote:
Ask her friends get to give her your number and text you or whatever the fuck.
Don't know her friends
On April 16 2012 04:38 TheKefka wrote:
Wait.Stop the fucking everything.A girl at this day and age that doesn't have facebook?
Where do you find one like that lol,only girl I thought that doesn't have facebook nowadays is my grandma.
Holy first world problem >.>
Parents don't let her have one. Her (older) sister does but I can't seem to find it. Probably because I'm retarded.
On April 16 2012 04:46 rotinegg wrote:
find her, pursue her, and if you cant, you dont deserve her.
How do I do this in a way that isn't creepy?
.... there are a couple of things that can happen here a) you make no effort to do anything for fear of being a "creep" and you have 0 chance at a relationship b) she thinks you're a creep, who cares atleast you tried c) you get to talk to her point being, there is ABSOLUTELY no difference between being considered a creep and not being considered a creep, if you dont get to talk to her anyways its pretty obvious bro, you cant just be scared of everything
Go for it dude.
Thanks Rice. I needed that.
You have her name? Ask your friends, 'hey I met this girl named X on that night and I've been trying to get in contact with her, do you know her?'
fb best advice.... |
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| run.at.me Australia. April 16 2012 14:28. Posts 323 | Profile # |
dont u wanna get ur willy wet MATE?
JUMP ON IT LAD, CHICKS NEED LOVIN TOO BRAH, shes probly cravin your pickle right this second |
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| PenguinWithNuke April 18 2012 10:58. Posts 247 | Profile Blog # |
UPDATE:
I got her number from someone who knows her!!! Gonna call it now! Will updater later |
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| PenguinWithNuke April 18 2012 14:27. Posts 247 | Profile Blog # |
So I texted her, and stuff and she didn't think that the trouble I went to to get her number was creepy or anything
I FUCKING LOVE YOU GUYS |
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| PenguinWithNuke April 18 2012 14:33. Posts 247 | Profile Blog # |
How do i not get friendzoned, turn this into a relationship or whatever?
I need advices
and i stayed up till 3 in the morning chatting with her. I feel like a fucking boss right now.
and she didn't say that i was creepy or whatever for getting her number and shit.
i really owe you guys.Last edit: 2012-04-18 15:53:31 |
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