During my expeditions on the internet to spread the love of and make Nicole queen, I've been told many times that I had "yellow fever", a strong and mostly sexual attraction towards ladies of Asian decent. My noble quest disregarded because in the eyes of many I was but a white dude blinded by the beauty of long black hair, bangs, cute eyes and tiny girls in school outfits.
I do not refute said statement but I would like to further explore it.
Firstly, the purpose of this thread will be to establish whether or not the general ensemble of this forum finds women of other ethnicity to be more attractive than those of your own cultural group. We will then explore why that is.
Before answering whether or not you find foreign ladies more attractive, consider the following: - Sexual attractiveness (as in purely to have sex). - Attractiveness to form a relationship. - Attractiveness to have kids with.
Personally, I find exotic women to be A LOT more attractive than those of my own ethnicity. That attraction however is not only restricted to the ladies of the rising sun and rice lands. Asian women are extremely desirable to me, they score the highest on all three scales of attraction previously mentioned and would definitely rank number one as the group I'm more attracted to. Following Asians would be Latin girls, Spanish girls, Black girls, Indian girls, and so on. My fellow White French Canadian ladies rank at the bottom of my attraction pyramid. I would in fact, gladly give the penis to a White European chick like a Serbian, Russian or British for example before a Canadian one of relatively equal physical attractiveness.
Before we dwell further in why that is I would like to point out that this preference of mine is not due to the average physical attractiveness of Canadian ladies. I personally haven't traveled, at all really, but I've been told by more globally experienced friends that Canadian girls on average rank pretty damn high on the world scale, especially Montreal girls for some reason.
Now let's explore the possible reasons of this foreign attraction.
As previously stated, I haven't traveled. I live in a predominantly white small town. Growing up in the public school system I might have been exposed to maybe ~40 black people (of both genders), ~20 Latinos, ~10 Asians, and I'm being generous with these counts. In fact, throughout my recent years at Cegep (a rather unique scholar establishment that we have here, it's after high school but before university) I remember meeting only one Asian lady (and my advances got denied ).
I suspect the fact that I have had very limited exposure to people of other decent to play a pretty big role in my attractiveness towards their women. I've always been interested in languages, cultures and history but given that I'm rather socially awkward and do not care much for friends, it leaves me with little insensitive to approach and explore these foreign cultures through male camaraderie. The women however have quite the insensitive. Foreign pussy. Unexplored, and different views on sex, different sexual rituals and other perspectives on the man-woman relationship that I want to learn and experience.
From a psychological standpoint, I haven't had much success in terms of relationships with my fellow white ladies, my "count" stands pretty low. I'm quite certain this also plays a role in this attraction. I would like to believe that somewhere else on the planet, I would be more desirable. Unique, a true stand-out. A place where the women would desire and want to experience my uniqueness. They would want to know me and what makes me so special. Also, as I said I have been mostly exposed to only white people, that means white people sexual habits, white people relationships, white people customs, etc. Now around here I'd say 50 maybe 60% (pulling numbers out of nowhere) of all marriages end in a divorce in the first 4 years. People constantly cheat on each other. They make each other unhappy and sad. Maybe the saying "the grass always looks greener on the other side" holds merits in this situation. Other cultures with different customs and views on relationships could make me more happy than what I've been around all my life ? Maybe that plays a role. Statistically if you look at divorce rates there's no denying that some cultures are better than others at maintaining a relationship, however statistics do not reveal what goes on behind the scenes or how happy they are but it something to take notice of.
The last topic I would like to explore is biological. I'm no expert but I remember learning from my history, anthropology and social studies classes that humans learned rather quickly that it was bad for them and their tribes to have children among their own blood or family. From a genetic point of view, it is in fact better to reproduce and have children with someone who's genetic code is most different than yours. I believe this is due to evolution, spreading genes and anomalies around create like more well rounded people able to adapt and resist to more and different things. Socially, tribes and societies used marriage to barter, create alliances and shape political powers. So in short, from a historic and genetic standpoint it always was one of our "goals" as humans to reproduce with others as different as possible than us. I think that maybe this is still something that influences or sexual attractions today. That's why I included the attractiveness to have children with in the things to consider. I personally do feel like having children with an exotic women is quite a lot more desirable. A modern equivalent to spreading genes around is that mixed babies are hella cuter!
Please discuss, what are your thoughts on this ? Do you feel the same way ? If not why do you think that is ? Please keep it clean and be careful not to offend anyone when discussing racial topics.
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On May 08 2012 05:05 TuElite wrote: Please discuss, what are your thoughts on this ? Do you feel the same way ? If not why do you think that is ? Please keep it clean and be careful not to offend anyone when discussing racial topics.
I guess I'm quite opposite to you, there is in my mind nothing hotter than blond and blue eyed girls while being blond and blue eyed myself. I have no idea why, I have no conscious control over it.
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sunprince United States. May 08 2012 05:48. Posts 2001
On May 08 2012 05:11 Ym1r wrote: I'm Asian and I find Asian women to be the most attractive. Asian >>>>>>>>> White > The rest
being from the USA, didn't you grow up in a prodominently white area? Hang with more white guys/girls? Just because you are Asian doesn't mean you are acustomed to their culture. It's still sort of exotic to you (just an opinion, no facts obviously) but it makes sense in my head O.o.
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Omnipresent United States. May 08 2012 06:06. Posts 871
That's a really interesting chart. It's worth noting that voting "No" when asked whether you strongly prefer dating someone of your own ethnicity doesn't necessarily mean you strongly prefer the opposite.
There may be plenty of people surveyed who somewhat prefer it, somewhat prefer others, or are indifferent.
Anyways, this is as fruitful as a "what's your favorite flavor of ice cream" discussion. Tastes differ and only idiots rule something out based on principle.
You wrote a 2 page essay to tell us you're a white guy who likes asian booty.Nice.Well, from my experience 99% of people are attracted to their race/skin color counterpart.As for me personally I am mostly attracted to Romanian East/European women but black/asians have some bodily features that makes them attractive for a one night stand. Sexual attractiveness (as in purely to have sex).
1.Romanian/Eastern European(Russian,Ukrainean etc) 2.Southern European(Spanish,Portughese,Greek) 3.Latino(Brazilian'Adriana Lima please marry me. I am the best ,'Argentinian,Ecuadorian etc) 4.American 5.Western/Northern European 6.Mulatto 7.Black/Asian
- Attractiveness to form a relationship. Only 1.Romanian/Eastern European(Russian,Ukrainean etc) 2.Southern European(Spanish,Portughese,Greek)
- Attractiveness to have kids with. 1.Romanian/Eastern European(Russian,Ukrainean etc) 2.Southern European(Spanish,Portughese,Greek)
Reasons for the choice are simple. 1.Romanian/Easter European women Many Romanian/Easter European women come from poor regions and one of the only means for them to acquire wealth is to be extremly good looking in order to attract a male sponsor.Therefore many of them spend many hours at the fitness gym and in beauty saloons constantly improving their looks.Moreover lack of finances means they won't rely on artificial ways of improvement such as plastic surgery.Unfortunately the disgusting plastic surgery is also spreading like wildfire in Romania so more and more women look like cyborgs although in reality they are gorgeous.
2. Southern European(Spanish,Portughese,Greek,Italian) Extremly hot and passional+very well groomed.Also very good friends of the Romanian people.
3.Latino(Brazilian'Adriana Lima please marry me. I am the best ,'Argentinian,Ecuadorian etc) Basicly a combination of southern european hotness +Eastern European poverty.Brazil especially has developed a habit of mass producing supermodels,spawning them like crazy.Notable example are the most beautiful women of all time:Adriana Lima(8 years consecutive Victorias Secret Angel) ,Giselle Bundche(the highest paid model of all time).Combine that with a culture of carnivals and partying/orgies and you may find the southern american women are the perfect mistresses.
4.American Let us just say that some natural supermodels+good looking singers/actresses and a dose of Hollywood culture make you guys remain in the top 5
5.Western/Northern European Born with the mentality that men are equal to women and the fact that lowpaid Eastern Europeans can supplement their physical actvities(I'm a Central/Eastern european studying in Germany.Don't ban it's the truth not racism) Western European women seem to have strayed from the ideal.In Western/Northern Europe you can see women drinking alonside men in pubs.Also the culture of politically correctness which allows fat/ugly people to expose themselves in clubs and other social venues,which in Eastern Europe would have led to immediate harassment(unless you are part of a gang) has led many women to consider themselves attractive although they are ugly/fat.Nevertheless notable exceptions do exist but to my dissapointment most women present in fitness clubs in Western/Northern Europe are immigrants.
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6.Mulatto Hot to say the least.The best of both worlds 7.Black/Asian I really like the sexual innocence developed by the Japanesse culture.I don't find black women attractive but white women seem to have a solid attraction for the size of black guys sexual apparatus.
That's a really interesting chart. It's worth noting that voting "No" when asked whether you strongly prefer dating someone of your own ethnicity doesn't necessarily mean you strongly prefer the opposite.
There may be plenty of people surveyed who somewhat prefer it, somewhat prefer others, or are indifferent.
White women seem to be the most tolerant.We white guys need to step our game up if we're going to propagate our genes.
What do you mean? The chart says the opposite.
If you're not getting better faster than everybody else, you're getting worse.
That's a really interesting chart. It's worth noting that voting "No" when asked whether you strongly prefer dating someone of your own ethnicity doesn't necessarily mean you strongly prefer the opposite.
There may be plenty of people surveyed who somewhat prefer it, somewhat prefer others, or are indifferent.
White women seem to be the most tolerant.We white guys need to step our game up if we're going to propagate our genes.
What do you mean? The chart says the opposite.
My bad.Thought the question was who was the most tolerant. Btw how is the modeling/beautiful women industry in your country?
That's a really interesting chart. It's worth noting that voting "No" when asked whether you strongly prefer dating someone of your own ethnicity doesn't necessarily mean you strongly prefer the opposite.
There may be plenty of people surveyed who somewhat prefer it, somewhat prefer others, or are indifferent.
White women seem to be the most tolerant.We white guys need to step our game up if we're going to propagate our genes.
What do you mean? The chart says the opposite.
My bad.Thought the question was who was the most tolerant. Btw how is the modeling/beautiful women industry in your country?
I'm not sure what you mean but the most famous models are glamour models with oversized fake boobs. Example: + Show Spoiler +
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Silidons United States. May 08 2012 07:27. Posts 2785
i'm white, and while i find asian women very attractive, i generally find white women more attractive. i think i mainly like asians because of their hair, i'm a sucker for nice black hair.
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Are you only counting sterotypical looks for each ethnicity? I have found myself both very attacted and very unattracted to woman of all ethnicities. I don't understand how someone can just say "yes" or "no" to an entire enthicity as far as attraction to them.
I was born in Colombia(south america), but I was raised in Canada and still live in Canada. - for Sexual attractiveness (as in purely to have sex) this is how I would rank skin colour/ethnicity: -Asian -black -brown skinned/tanned(latinos(not white latino girls though), middle eastern, etc.) -white
- Attractiveness to form a relationship. -Asian -black -latino -middle eastern
- Attractiveness to have kids with. -Asian -black -latino -middle eastern
Reason i excluded americans and candians from having kids or a relationship with is because i don't like their culture much. After living here in Canada, I see a lot of white people kick their kids out early and they don't spend as much time together with their kids, I also see a lot of white erderly alone here because their kids don't want to or dont visit them much. Also, I would prefer a stay at home mother, since i was raised by a stay at home mother and its how a lot of people do in my culture. Lastly, I'm not sexually attracted to white women as much.
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ecstatica United States. May 08 2012 07:53. Posts 542
Theres nothing more boring to me than two similar-looking people being together. It can still be same race but entirely different features, which makes it interesting imo. I will go further and say that even though Im eastern european, eastern europeans and pale white skin DISGUST me.
My fiance is the complete opposite of me, both physically and emotionally. Im absolutely happy about it.
That's a really interesting chart. It's worth noting that voting "No" when asked whether you strongly prefer dating someone of your own ethnicity doesn't necessarily mean you strongly prefer the opposite.
There may be plenty of people surveyed who somewhat prefer it, somewhat prefer others, or are indifferent.
White women seem to be the most tolerant.We white guys need to step our game up if we're going to propagate our genes.
What do you mean? The chart says the opposite.
My bad.Thought the question was who was the most tolerant. Btw how is the modeling/beautiful women industry in your country?
I'm not sure what you mean but the most famous models are glamour models with oversized fake boobs. Example: + Show Spoiler +
See now here lies the problem.Romanian ones tend to prefer to do it naturally.
Example of Romanian model:
Example of Random romanian beautiful woman
ecstatica United States. May 08 2012 08:07. Posts 542