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original thread http://www.teamliquid.net/forum/viewmessage.php?topic_id=82090
blogpost http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?topic_id=82089
[remaking for the third time since a) hotbid is clueless b) blog entry isnt registered as part of my blog for some reason and will get lost otherwise]
the thing is, i'm really looking for ways to deal with this issue in a more enlightened fashion...
if she was a guy i would value her friendship just as much, since we have something pretty unique or at least pretty uncommon between us going on. its the physical and overwhelming love side , not even indulgence as travis puts it because it's completely beyond my immediate control (i can spontaeniously get an erection just from hearing her voice or receiving a txt message from her for heavens sake, and at work in very public places without any sort of indulgence whatsoever!!!! aghhh!!!!!)
so basically i need to culture extreme fortitude of mind. this is a key part of our spiritual development, something i'm no where near ready for. instead of following all but a handful of your advices, i want to explore this problem to a greater extent and find a resolution that is more than "get her out of your life, end the suffering" etc. if you care about someone you can leave them alone to get along with their own lives.....or maybe you can find a better way, conquer it, or at least try.
this is why i headed my OP with "i don't want your advice", because about 100 of you would just come crashing down with annoying low level bullshit , like you did, whereas asking for similar experiences to be shared lets me make my own judgement and explore the issue in an alternative fashion
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I think we've been through our fairshare of such situations where guy likes girl alot but girl doesn't give back. If you just keep holding on, you'll find yourself giving and giving and giving but receiving nothing in return. That my friend, harbours many bad thoughts and it just puts you in such a bad shape that it will be hard to get out of.
What they're saying is to just leave it and move on. She clearly doesn't want something like an intimate relationship. Maybe she's not all that great. If she was the one I guess things would fall right into place.
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You are incredibly egotistical and conceited, proven by the very first repost you made (which received 127 replies or whatever). have fun!
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fuck.. really.... the 3rd time? Feed him to gg.net
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When will you get the msg
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Braavos36362 Posts
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Braavos36362 Posts
remaking for the third time since a) hotbid is clueless b) blog entry isnt registered as part of my blog for some reason and will get lost otherwise
Let me summarize what happened:
1. I close your emo girl thread that just degenerated into flaming.
2. You PM me to have it reopened. Instead of just telling you no way, I explain to you the reasons why its better to have a blog post about it.
3. You insist that there's some deep meaning behind your thread and that you're doing TL a great service for bringing such unique and amazing discussion topics to the general forum.
4. I say just make a blog, and apparently that's not enough for you. You have to MSN me to argue more, insult me saying I'm "not on your level" and "can't fully comprehend your thought process" etc. And now I'm "clueless".
I'm done being patient and understanding, enjoy the nuke icon.
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Katowice25012 Posts
you're a creepy stalker and that is exactly why I like your posts
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sad that some people can't understand it.....
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If I was Hot_Bid, I think I would've start banning at 2)-3) or so. Your patience, sir, is commendable.
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lol read some of his "arguements" apparently nobody in this world have girl problems XD
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Good job. You earned that nuke icon! Have fun spending eternity in Disney land.
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What was his past username?
I suppose the only reason he lasted so long was because despite being excessively arrogant, he usually typed coherently and in a mild tone.
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Netherlands13552 Posts
Ya so closing this as well.
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