The whole alpha male wolves thing is pretty stupid too. I think that there are just as many ambitious women as there are men. They do better than us in school damnit! Worse at getting CEO jobs but that's more because businesses are discriminatory and rooted in ancient formalities and society kinda tells them they shouldn't become CEOs.
As an existentialist I believe in trying to do whatever I think would be best for me. Whatever makes me happy in the long run, and whatever lets me avoid sadness and bad emotions most.