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14/F/Cali looking for mature guy <3
No but srsly TL isn't exactly the best place to be looking for love.
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On September 19 2013 05:46 Najda wrote: 14/F/Cali looking for mature guy <3
No but srsly TL isn't exactly the best place to be looking for love.
how many privs have you got so far?
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On September 19 2013 05:28 oDieN wrote:Show nested quote +On September 18 2013 17:45 G3CKO wrote:On September 18 2013 17:26 oDieN wrote:On September 18 2013 16:58 G3CKO wrote:On September 11 2013 13:46 packrat386 wrote:On September 10 2013 16:57 red_hq wrote:On September 10 2013 13:44 slyderturtle wrote:On September 10 2013 07:47 red_hq wrote:On September 10 2013 07:29 Nikon wrote:On September 10 2013 03:08 Firebolt145 wrote: I'm more interested in the "Neither answer was appropriate" part of the population tbh Same: trans and gender-queer people are the best. <3 The lady dicks. Not so much all the weird baggage that comes with gender-weirdness, but it's a small price to pay. hey just letting you know, that post is kinda insensitive in case you were wondering... I mean I don't like identify as male because I don't like the things associated with it, but I definitely am no a "lady dick". Not to mention the "weird baggage" that you're so against. Maybe, I think you're misinterpreting the term lady dick. What I meant was if you identify more as a lady and have a dick, I ♥your dick. I say it in much the way people say I like big titties or a nice ass, I enjoy a gender mis-matched penis. I also find androgynous people to be very attractive. By baggage I mean all the struggles that commonly come with gender dysphoria. Like depression, self esteem issues, and social.stigmas. I don't want to deal with these things but I do anyway becaise it's such a small issue compared to being able to stay with and get to know such unique and beautiful people. It's the same way people might not want to deal with their girlfriend's OCD or self esteem issues but do anyway because they love them. I'd rather that gender queer people not have these issues either but because they do I have to accept that and help them because I am attracted to them. I can't answer for slyderturtle, but a decent amount of transgendered people don't like it when people point out anatomical discrepencies. That "weird baggage" that you're talking about usually comes from the fact that it is incredibly frustration to identify as as one gender while while outwardly appearing in some ways to be another. Also its pretty harsh to be dismissive of the issues that transgendered people face as a bunch of "weird baggage" that you don't want to deal with. Your post may have been meant as a joke, but you should be careful with that kind of phrasing. I agree that it is very disrespectful to point out transgendered anatomical discrepancies I think. I'm also a believer that gender cannot be defined physically as well. Also from experience, dating a transgendered person can be a lot of effort as most are pretty shy about themselves, but if the two of you really work at it both of your feelings will come through in the end. It will takes a lot of heart and effort, but that's what finding some one you love is about right? Just out of curiosity, was it a Male or Female transgender that you've dated? Male to female transgendered. Interesting. Did you know of this prior to you two dating? How was that like?
I've known her for 3 years and she only told me when we got really close. When she told me, I didn't really care. So naturally we started going out together. Still together as of this moment.
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On September 19 2013 13:17 G3CKO wrote:Show nested quote +On September 19 2013 05:28 oDieN wrote:On September 18 2013 17:45 G3CKO wrote:On September 18 2013 17:26 oDieN wrote:On September 18 2013 16:58 G3CKO wrote:On September 11 2013 13:46 packrat386 wrote:On September 10 2013 16:57 red_hq wrote:On September 10 2013 13:44 slyderturtle wrote:On September 10 2013 07:47 red_hq wrote:On September 10 2013 07:29 Nikon wrote: [quote]
I'm more interested in the "Neither answer was appropriate" part of the population tbh Same: trans and gender-queer people are the best. <3 The lady dicks. Not so much all the weird baggage that comes with gender-weirdness, but it's a small price to pay. hey just letting you know, that post is kinda insensitive in case you were wondering... I mean I don't like identify as male because I don't like the things associated with it, but I definitely am no a "lady dick". Not to mention the "weird baggage" that you're so against. Maybe, I think you're misinterpreting the term lady dick. What I meant was if you identify more as a lady and have a dick, I ♥your dick. I say it in much the way people say I like big titties or a nice ass, I enjoy a gender mis-matched penis. I also find androgynous people to be very attractive. By baggage I mean all the struggles that commonly come with gender dysphoria. Like depression, self esteem issues, and social.stigmas. I don't want to deal with these things but I do anyway becaise it's such a small issue compared to being able to stay with and get to know such unique and beautiful people. It's the same way people might not want to deal with their girlfriend's OCD or self esteem issues but do anyway because they love them. I'd rather that gender queer people not have these issues either but because they do I have to accept that and help them because I am attracted to them. I can't answer for slyderturtle, but a decent amount of transgendered people don't like it when people point out anatomical discrepencies. That "weird baggage" that you're talking about usually comes from the fact that it is incredibly frustration to identify as as one gender while while outwardly appearing in some ways to be another. Also its pretty harsh to be dismissive of the issues that transgendered people face as a bunch of "weird baggage" that you don't want to deal with. Your post may have been meant as a joke, but you should be careful with that kind of phrasing. I agree that it is very disrespectful to point out transgendered anatomical discrepancies I think. I'm also a believer that gender cannot be defined physically as well. Also from experience, dating a transgendered person can be a lot of effort as most are pretty shy about themselves, but if the two of you really work at it both of your feelings will come through in the end. It will takes a lot of heart and effort, but that's what finding some one you love is about right? Just out of curiosity, was it a Male or Female transgender that you've dated? Male to female transgendered. Interesting. Did you know of this prior to you two dating? How was that like? I've known her for 3 years and she only told me when we got really close. When she told me, I didn't really care. So naturally we started going out together. Still together as of this moment. Ah cute. Yeah, I find this fascinating. I saw a True Life episode last night about transgender. It was weird at first to watch, but it kinda sucked me in; amusingly. Do you two have a picture together?
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On September 19 2013 13:28 oDieN wrote:Show nested quote +On September 19 2013 13:17 G3CKO wrote:On September 19 2013 05:28 oDieN wrote:On September 18 2013 17:45 G3CKO wrote:On September 18 2013 17:26 oDieN wrote:On September 18 2013 16:58 G3CKO wrote:On September 11 2013 13:46 packrat386 wrote:On September 10 2013 16:57 red_hq wrote:On September 10 2013 13:44 slyderturtle wrote:On September 10 2013 07:47 red_hq wrote: [quote]
Same: trans and gender-queer people are the best. <3 The lady dicks. Not so much all the weird baggage that comes with gender-weirdness, but it's a small price to pay. hey just letting you know, that post is kinda insensitive in case you were wondering... I mean I don't like identify as male because I don't like the things associated with it, but I definitely am no a "lady dick". Not to mention the "weird baggage" that you're so against. Maybe, I think you're misinterpreting the term lady dick. What I meant was if you identify more as a lady and have a dick, I ♥your dick. I say it in much the way people say I like big titties or a nice ass, I enjoy a gender mis-matched penis. I also find androgynous people to be very attractive. By baggage I mean all the struggles that commonly come with gender dysphoria. Like depression, self esteem issues, and social.stigmas. I don't want to deal with these things but I do anyway becaise it's such a small issue compared to being able to stay with and get to know such unique and beautiful people. It's the same way people might not want to deal with their girlfriend's OCD or self esteem issues but do anyway because they love them. I'd rather that gender queer people not have these issues either but because they do I have to accept that and help them because I am attracted to them. I can't answer for slyderturtle, but a decent amount of transgendered people don't like it when people point out anatomical discrepencies. That "weird baggage" that you're talking about usually comes from the fact that it is incredibly frustration to identify as as one gender while while outwardly appearing in some ways to be another. Also its pretty harsh to be dismissive of the issues that transgendered people face as a bunch of "weird baggage" that you don't want to deal with. Your post may have been meant as a joke, but you should be careful with that kind of phrasing. I agree that it is very disrespectful to point out transgendered anatomical discrepancies I think. I'm also a believer that gender cannot be defined physically as well. Also from experience, dating a transgendered person can be a lot of effort as most are pretty shy about themselves, but if the two of you really work at it both of your feelings will come through in the end. It will takes a lot of heart and effort, but that's what finding some one you love is about right? Just out of curiosity, was it a Male or Female transgender that you've dated? Male to female transgendered. Interesting. Did you know of this prior to you two dating? How was that like? I've known her for 3 years and she only told me when we got really close. When she told me, I didn't really care. So naturally we started going out together. Still together as of this moment. Ah cute. Yeah, I find this fascinating. I saw a True Life episode last night about transgender. It was weird at first to watch, but it kinda sucked me in; amusingly. Do you two have a picture together?
No pics unfortunately. Both of us don't really like taking pictures. I really think you can't help who you fall in love with, it kind of just happens. So just go with it.
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On September 19 2013 06:12 dAPhREAk wrote:at least one.... <.< >.> + Show Spoiler +User was warned for this post hmm...
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On September 19 2013 13:31 G3CKO wrote:Show nested quote +On September 19 2013 13:28 oDieN wrote:On September 19 2013 13:17 G3CKO wrote:On September 19 2013 05:28 oDieN wrote:On September 18 2013 17:45 G3CKO wrote:On September 18 2013 17:26 oDieN wrote:On September 18 2013 16:58 G3CKO wrote:On September 11 2013 13:46 packrat386 wrote:On September 10 2013 16:57 red_hq wrote:On September 10 2013 13:44 slyderturtle wrote: [quote]
hey just letting you know, that post is kinda insensitive in case you were wondering... I mean I don't like identify as male because I don't like the things associated with it, but I definitely am no a "lady dick". Not to mention the "weird baggage" that you're so against. Maybe, I think you're misinterpreting the term lady dick. What I meant was if you identify more as a lady and have a dick, I ♥your dick. I say it in much the way people say I like big titties or a nice ass, I enjoy a gender mis-matched penis. I also find androgynous people to be very attractive. By baggage I mean all the struggles that commonly come with gender dysphoria. Like depression, self esteem issues, and social.stigmas. I don't want to deal with these things but I do anyway becaise it's such a small issue compared to being able to stay with and get to know such unique and beautiful people. It's the same way people might not want to deal with their girlfriend's OCD or self esteem issues but do anyway because they love them. I'd rather that gender queer people not have these issues either but because they do I have to accept that and help them because I am attracted to them. I can't answer for slyderturtle, but a decent amount of transgendered people don't like it when people point out anatomical discrepencies. That "weird baggage" that you're talking about usually comes from the fact that it is incredibly frustration to identify as as one gender while while outwardly appearing in some ways to be another. Also its pretty harsh to be dismissive of the issues that transgendered people face as a bunch of "weird baggage" that you don't want to deal with. Your post may have been meant as a joke, but you should be careful with that kind of phrasing. I agree that it is very disrespectful to point out transgendered anatomical discrepancies I think. I'm also a believer that gender cannot be defined physically as well. Also from experience, dating a transgendered person can be a lot of effort as most are pretty shy about themselves, but if the two of you really work at it both of your feelings will come through in the end. It will takes a lot of heart and effort, but that's what finding some one you love is about right? Just out of curiosity, was it a Male or Female transgender that you've dated? Male to female transgendered. Interesting. Did you know of this prior to you two dating? How was that like? I've known her for 3 years and she only told me when we got really close. When she told me, I didn't really care. So naturally we started going out together. Still together as of this moment. Ah cute. Yeah, I find this fascinating. I saw a True Life episode last night about transgender. It was weird at first to watch, but it kinda sucked me in; amusingly. Do you two have a picture together? No pics unfortunately. Both of us don't really like taking pictures. I really think you can't help who you fall in love with, it kind of just happens. So just go with it.
There's a couples thread for pictures with your pArtner. just put one up there. Seeing that thread grow gives us hermits hope. :D
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On September 23 2013 00:57 slytown wrote:Show nested quote +On September 19 2013 13:31 G3CKO wrote:On September 19 2013 13:28 oDieN wrote:On September 19 2013 13:17 G3CKO wrote:On September 19 2013 05:28 oDieN wrote:On September 18 2013 17:45 G3CKO wrote:On September 18 2013 17:26 oDieN wrote:On September 18 2013 16:58 G3CKO wrote:On September 11 2013 13:46 packrat386 wrote:On September 10 2013 16:57 red_hq wrote: [quote]
Maybe, I think you're misinterpreting the term lady dick. What I meant was if you identify more as a lady and have a dick, I ♥your dick. I say it in much the way people say I like big titties or a nice ass, I enjoy a gender mis-matched penis. I also find androgynous people to be very attractive.
By baggage I mean all the struggles that commonly come with gender dysphoria. Like depression, self esteem issues, and social.stigmas. I don't want to deal with these things but I do anyway becaise it's such a small issue compared to being able to stay with and get to know such unique and beautiful people. It's the same way people might not want to deal with their girlfriend's OCD or self esteem issues but do anyway because they love them. I'd rather that gender queer people not have these issues either but because they do I have to accept that and help them because I am attracted to them.
I can't answer for slyderturtle, but a decent amount of transgendered people don't like it when people point out anatomical discrepencies. That "weird baggage" that you're talking about usually comes from the fact that it is incredibly frustration to identify as as one gender while while outwardly appearing in some ways to be another. Also its pretty harsh to be dismissive of the issues that transgendered people face as a bunch of "weird baggage" that you don't want to deal with. Your post may have been meant as a joke, but you should be careful with that kind of phrasing. I agree that it is very disrespectful to point out transgendered anatomical discrepancies I think. I'm also a believer that gender cannot be defined physically as well. Also from experience, dating a transgendered person can be a lot of effort as most are pretty shy about themselves, but if the two of you really work at it both of your feelings will come through in the end. It will takes a lot of heart and effort, but that's what finding some one you love is about right? Just out of curiosity, was it a Male or Female transgender that you've dated? Male to female transgendered. Interesting. Did you know of this prior to you two dating? How was that like? I've known her for 3 years and she only told me when we got really close. When she told me, I didn't really care. So naturally we started going out together. Still together as of this moment. Ah cute. Yeah, I find this fascinating. I saw a True Life episode last night about transgender. It was weird at first to watch, but it kinda sucked me in; amusingly. Do you two have a picture together? No pics unfortunately. Both of us don't really like taking pictures. I really think you can't help who you fall in love with, it kind of just happens. So just go with it. There's a couples thread for pictures with your pArtner. just put one up there. Seeing that thread grow gives us hermits hope. :D
Right I'll try to get a picture of us together. If that will give you hope. To be fair, that thread did give me some hope too back then....
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Hello it has been seven months since I posted my interest but I have no personal messages so maybe I was too picky so I reconsider and now it is ok if you are weird
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Hahaha, I support it. Help this guy out
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