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| Fealthas February 24 2012 06:45. Posts 548 | Profile # |
| How is it not ethical to have babies? In africa people are starving and the birth rate is highest in the world. If you had to call something unethical I would call that unethical. |
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| Emnjay808 United States. February 24 2012 06:49. Posts 2484 | Profile Blog # |
Do I want a relationship? Sure I do
Do I want one now? No, I do not.
Am I happy being single? Hell yes. |
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| Ryuu314 United States. February 24 2012 06:53. Posts 5337 | Profile # |
Honestly I feel that this article is geared more towards addressing Japan's growing problem of an asymmetrically aging population.
In a nutshell, Japan wants their young people to get into relationships and have babies. The current problem in Japan is that their elderly far far outnumbers the number of young people, causing extreme economic stress on their system. This causes a sort of vicious cycle where young people don't wish to have children due to the financial hardship and burden of raising kids, which in turn fuels the aging population problem.
The author is probably just attempting (poorly) to spark a response. Either that or he's a giant idiot. |
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keiraknightlee United States. February 24 2012 06:58. Posts 301 | Profile Blog # |
| i really respect women, which is why i can never date them. i'm kind of a jerk so before i know it she would be slapping me silly. i like looking at women, but they are difficult to understand. women are like the universe. it's better to just look at them from far away, because talking with them always leads to trouble |
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| ShatterZer0 United States. February 24 2012 07:02. Posts 1833 | Profile # |
How to solve the population crisis... by finding a pathogen that causes this disorder and spreading it in airstrikes....
LOL wtf is this? If you don't want intimate human contact you're ill? Whoever actually believes that needs to see a psychiatrist... |
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| Zooper31 United States. February 24 2012 07:07. Posts 3438 | Profile # |
On February 23 2012 22:55 Neeh wrote: Lower birthrates is a good thing...
That's how I feel atm the way our planet is reproducing. Pretty sure India, China, and the US are gonna have enough people being born to counteract everyone else not having kids and continue to raise the population out of our reach. |
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| solidbebe Netherlands. February 24 2012 07:23. Posts 3238 | Profile # |
On February 24 2012 07:07 Zooper31 wrote:That's how I feel atm the way our planet is reproducing. Pretty sure India, China, and the US are gonna have enough people being born to counteract everyone else not having kids and continue to raise the population out of our reach.
Western countries are on the decline, that includes the US. |
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| leecH Germany. February 24 2012 07:40. Posts 385 | Profile Blog # |
On February 24 2012 06:39 MONXY FIST wrote: Show nested quote +On February 24 2012 03:16 leecH wrote: i just think most wemon have a mental disorder. im good :-)
i often thinkin that a classic relationship is like a relict. you dont have to like be with one person for the rest of your life. we don´t live in caves go hunting and back home to our cave where we need our hair wolflike lady to cook the food..
if this is a mental illness everything would be.
sitting in front of a pc is not natural we should be out hunting? not shitting in the woods is a serious mental illness?
sometimes i think people who study this stuff are the ones having mental issues.
i like not having someone around pissing me off all day :-)
It saddens me that people can be this misogynistic in this day and age.
smilie faces with noses stand for "im not that serious because i am a smilieface with a nose"
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| HypernovA Canada. February 24 2012 07:42. Posts 446 | Profile # |
On February 24 2012 04:28 Savio wrote:I'm a psychiatrist (still in my residency training) and I treat mental illness all day. I can tell you that no one I have ever met in the mental health field would consider someone who doesn't currently want a girlfriend to have "serious mental illness". The closest thing is "Schizoid Personality Disorder" which by DSM criteria requires: Show nested quote +A. A pervasive pattern of detachment from social relationships and a restricted range of expression of emotions in interpersonal settings, beginning by early adulthood (age eighteen or older) and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by four (or more) of the following:
1. Neither desires nor enjoys relationships or human interaction, including being part of a family 2. Almost always chooses solitary activities 3. Has little, if any, interest in having sexual experiences with another person 4. Takes pleasure in few, if any, activities with other people 5. Lacks close friends or confidants other than first-degree relatives 6. Appears indifferent to the praise or criticism of others 7. Shows emotional coldness, detachment, or flattened affect
B. Does not occur exclusively during the course of schizophrenia, a mood disorder with psychotic features, another psychotic disorder, or a pervasive developmental disorder and is not due to the direct physiological effects of a general medical condition.
In addition to this criteria, a person's personality disoder must meet the folowing criteria: Show nested quote +An enduring pattern of psychological experience and behavior that differs prominently from cultural expectations, as shown in two or more of: cognition (i.e. perceiving and interpreting the self, other people or events); affect (ie. the range, intensity, lability, and appropriateness of emotional response); interpersonal functioning; or impulse control. The pattern must appear inflexible and pervasive across a wide range of situations, and lead to clinically significant distress or impairment in important areas of functioning. The pattern must be stable and long-lasting, have started as early as at least adolescence or early adulthood. The pattern must not be better accounted for as a manifestation of another mental disorder, or to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g. drug or medication) or a general medical condition (e.g. head trauma).
Its very very rare and I've never actually met anyone who has it. Personality disorders, in general, are not diagnosed in 1 visit. You have to fully evaluate the individual over a period of time and know their individual social, biological, and psychological situations before you can be comfortable as listing them as having a personality disorder.
Thanks for debunking a lot of myths and bad information. I really don't see how not having a girlfriend is a huge problem. Maybe in Japan but you can't blame males for not wanted to chase females. There are other cultural aspects that may affect this problem.
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| Badfatpanda United States. February 24 2012 07:45. Posts 9261 | Profile Blog # |
| You're right, the state of the sensationalist bullshit excuse for journalism we call modern media is scary >.> |
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| sunprince United States. February 24 2012 07:46. Posts 2024 | Profile # |
On February 24 2012 05:01 FFGenerations wrote:the stress involved in dealing with women , thinking about women etc ...that is the reason men die earlier. women are generally way more emotionally independent, its something a lot of young men need to learn at some point
The main reasons men die earlier than women are (a) hazardous occupations (military/law enforcement, mining, heavy industry, etc.) are filled almost entirely by men and (b) men are the majority of the victims of violence (while rape victims outside of prison tend slightly to be female, violent assault and murder victims are mostly men).
The closest way that your statement might be true is that men more often have to work to support/protect women than the other way around, but that's a fairly indirect means of stating the above. Stress from dealing with women doesn't have a major direct impact on male life expectancy, even if it does occasionally shorten the average slightly when a man kills himself after his wife leaves him or something. |
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| RageBot Israel. February 24 2012 07:48. Posts 1459 | Profile # |
On February 24 2012 06:58 keiraknightlee wrote: i really respect women, which is why i can never date them. i'm kind of a jerk so before i know it she would be slapping me silly. i like looking at women, but they are difficult to understand. women are like the universe. it's better to just look at them from far away, because talking with them always leads to trouble
Seriously? |
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| Golem72 Canada. February 24 2012 07:49. Posts 119 | Profile # |
| Shocking find I was thinking of breaking up with my girlfriend, and was thinking that yeah I dont really need a girlfriend though I never asked her out she just keeps showing up.......... |
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Spieltor February 24 2012 07:52. Posts 327 | Profile Blog # |
On February 24 2012 03:02 NEOtheONE wrote: For all the people that keep going back to the word rationalizing, I'd like to point out that rationalizing is a defense mechanism and is generally pyschologically unhealthy.
actually its one of the more healthy ones, if it progresses to the defense mechanism of sublimation. All other defense mechanisms vary in quality of bad or worse, also dependent on the context of what someone is doing and how bad that is during the defense mechanism process. |
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Blasterion China. February 24 2012 07:52. Posts 10268 | Profile Blog # |
| This guy seems to have ignored to thousands of girls that just want to play around and not get married and have kids either. |
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| Golem72 Canada. February 24 2012 07:52. Posts 119 | Profile # |
On February 24 2012 07:42 HypernovA wrote: Show nested quote +On February 24 2012 04:28 Savio wrote:I'm a psychiatrist (still in my residency training) and I treat mental illness all day. I can tell you that no one I have ever met in the mental health field would consider someone who doesn't currently want a girlfriend to have "serious mental illness". The closest thing is "Schizoid Personality Disorder" which by DSM criteria requires: A. A pervasive pattern of detachment from social relationships and a restricted range of expression of emotions in interpersonal settings, beginning by early adulthood (age eighteen or older) and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by four (or more) of the following:
1. Neither desires nor enjoys relationships or human interaction, including being part of a family 2. Almost always chooses solitary activities 3. Has little, if any, interest in having sexual experiences with another person 4. Takes pleasure in few, if any, activities with other people 5. Lacks close friends or confidants other than first-degree relatives 6. Appears indifferent to the praise or criticism of others 7. Shows emotional coldness, detachment, or flattened affect
B. Does not occur exclusively during the course of schizophrenia, a mood disorder with psychotic features, another psychotic disorder, or a pervasive developmental disorder and is not due to the direct physiological effects of a general medical condition.
In addition to this criteria, a person's personality disoder must meet the folowing criteria: An enduring pattern of psychological experience and behavior that differs prominently from cultural expectations, as shown in two or more of: cognition (i.e. perceiving and interpreting the self, other people or events); affect (ie. the range, intensity, lability, and appropriateness of emotional response); interpersonal functioning; or impulse control. The pattern must appear inflexible and pervasive across a wide range of situations, and lead to clinically significant distress or impairment in important areas of functioning. The pattern must be stable and long-lasting, have started as early as at least adolescence or early adulthood. The pattern must not be better accounted for as a manifestation of another mental disorder, or to the direct physiological effects of a substance (e.g. drug or medication) or a general medical condition (e.g. head trauma).
Its very very rare and I've never actually met anyone who has it. Personality disorders, in general, are not diagnosed in 1 visit. You have to fully evaluate the individual over a period of time and know their individual social, biological, and psychological situations before you can be comfortable as listing them as having a personality disorder.
Thanks for debunking a lot of myths and bad information. I really don't see how not having a girlfriend is a huge problem. Maybe in Japan but you can't blame males for not wanted to chase females. There are other cultural aspects that may affect this problem.
HOLY SHIT My doctor did not diagnose me with that! That sounds more like me than shcizophrenia Psychosis!
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| bobsire Canada. February 24 2012 07:52. Posts 276 | Profile # |
| I want a girlfriend, so i guess im fine. |
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| setzer United States. February 24 2012 07:55. Posts 3271 | Profile # |
| Considering the current situation with our population I have no moral qualms with shitting on humanity by not producing offspring to continue our species existence. |
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| EnderSword Canada. February 24 2012 07:57. Posts 547 | Profile # |
I'm getting the sense no one read the actual thing...because the entire debate is kind of resolved in like....the next line
"You really want a someone to love. But in reality, you cannot," continued the professor. "However, if you brush that off and use the excuse that you don't want a girlfriend, then you're trying to ease your serious heartbreak."
So the statement is completely conditional.
IF you don't want a girlfriend because you ACTUALLY don't want one..he's not claiming that's an illness of any kind.
But, IF you CLAIM to not want a girlfriend when you in fact do, and are instead trying to alter your own perception of things around you to justify it..then he's saying that is a mental illness.
So again, it's completely conditional and predicated on the person making the claim when it is not true.
Example: Claiming you have one leg does not make you crazy. But adamantly claiming you have only one leg when you do in fact have two legs, probably means you've got some sort of condition.
Everyone's looking at this and responding with 'YEAH, but what if he really DOES only have one leg?' But the Doctor's entire argument begins with the fact that he doesn't. The entire premise is we're talking about a person who is lying or deluded, not telling the truth.
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Blasterion China. February 24 2012 08:01. Posts 10268 | Profile Blog # |
Poll: Just curiousI disagree with the professor and I am single/divorced (14) 47% I agree with the professor and I am dating/married (6) 20% I agree with the professor and I am single/divorced (5) 17% I disagree with the professor and I am dating/married (5) 17% 30 total votes Your vote: Just curious (Vote): I agree with the professor and I am single/divorced (Vote): I agree with the professor and I am dating/married (Vote): I disagree with the professor and I am single/divorced (Vote): I disagree with the professor and I am dating/married
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