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squattincassanova
United States650 Posts
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Protoss_Carrier
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Colbert
Canada148 Posts
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Xiphos
Canada7507 Posts
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squattincassanova
United States650 Posts
On November 01 2011 10:39 Protoss_Carrier wrote: You know what's the difference between natural and PUA? Naturals don't write up lay reports because they are so used to getting laid. I guess that makes you neither a PUA nor a Natural. | ||
bloopie
United States123 Posts
Lets say I'm a college student. I'm a pretty above average looking kid (i know because I'm in a school fashion show as a runway model) there are tons of hot girls around so it should be a shoo-in right? A couple of problems: - The main people in charge are kinda serious, so people are encouraged not to talk during practices. But people still chit chat at the side, so its fine, its just that there will be some periods of silence - The main thing is that there are a couple of frat guys with some inherent social proof with their (better) looks and well, social life, so girls seem more open to them (or it could be me giving myself excuses) - I sometime catch the girls giving me glances, but if its from across the room, I cant really do anything about that. I dont wanna try too hard (remember, this is a legit organisation and I have to practice with them for some prolonged periods of time) - I'm Asian, so I can tell really strong IOIs given from Asian girls, and I don't have to do much (I literally can spit any nonsense and they will just fall on themselves laughing) but when I try to approach non-Asian girls, (maybe I get approach anxiety) it just comes out weird. I have to reset my frame of mind? - Again, most of the models are your typical poli-sci, or english majors, voice majors (humanities) and most of the guy models are engineers/ I am the only computer science kid. It shouldn't get to me i know, but computer science kids are perceived to be lame. I try to work the "I'm actually a cool cs kid!" approach, sometimes fail, or comes out too techy. any opinions? .. | ||
mav451
United States1596 Posts
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David451
United States491 Posts
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beg
991 Posts
On November 01 2011 14:26 David451 wrote: Why does this thread still exist. The whole PUA community is a scam. It preys on men who don't have any self-confidence or personality. Sure, they come out of it with some false-confidence and a stilted personality, which I guess they would think is a massive improvement. But it's like learning to play the piano with your fists. You can do so much better... cool, tell me how to do better. oh wait, that would be pickup theory... you could sell that shit, brah. | ||
bloopie
United States123 Posts
On November 01 2011 14:23 mav451 wrote: I think your 4th point is probably the most important. Your reads are probably far easier with Asian girls cuz that's what you already know very well and it's unconscious/effortless. Probably the unknown with non-Asians that's giving you the anxiety and I'm guessing the non-Asians can smell that a mile away :p Yea I'm thinking that too, anyway to get around that? Just have to open more on other people, to get more confidence? I dont usually do lines and routine openers, but I guess I may have to soon lol | ||
David451
United States491 Posts
On November 01 2011 14:29 beg wrote: cool, tell me how to do better. oh wait, that would be pickup theory... you could sell that shit, brah. Look up escorts in the yellow pages. 100% success rate for getting a one-night stand. | ||
sunprince
United States2258 Posts
On November 01 2011 14:54 David451 wrote: Look up escorts in the yellow pages. 100% success rate for getting a one-night stand. And how exactly does that help people who are learning pick-up because they want to find a girlfriend or get laid every night without spending a ton of money on girls? | ||
squattincassanova
United States650 Posts
On November 01 2011 13:47 bloopie wrote: Hmm question here Lets say I'm a college student. I'm a pretty above average looking kid (i know because I'm in a school fashion show as a runway model) there are tons of hot girls around so it should be a shoo-in right? A couple of problems: - The main people in charge are kinda serious, so people are encouraged not to talk during practices. But people still chit chat at the side, so its fine, its just that there will be some periods of silence - The main thing is that there are a couple of frat guys with some inherent social proof with their (better) looks and well, social life, so girls seem more open to them (or it could be me giving myself excuses) - I sometime catch the girls giving me glances, but if its from across the room, I cant really do anything about that. I dont wanna try too hard (remember, this is a legit organisation and I have to practice with them for some prolonged periods of time) - I'm Asian, so I can tell really strong IOIs given from Asian girls, and I don't have to do much (I literally can spit any nonsense and they will just fall on themselves laughing) but when I try to approach non-Asian girls, (maybe I get approach anxiety) it just comes out weird. I have to reset my frame of mind? - Again, most of the models are your typical poli-sci, or english majors, voice majors (humanities) and most of the guy models are engineers/ I am the only computer science kid. It shouldn't get to me i know, but computer science kids are perceived to be lame. I try to work the "I'm actually a cool cs kid!" approach, sometimes fail, or comes out too techy. any opinions? .. You are result oriented. Focus on getting better. You dont have the luxury of figuring out who likes who doesn't. You will never get good. I mean, if you want to settle for a girl friend eventually, that might work. But if you want to get better, disregard any IOIs, disregard what other guys are doing. You think I care if a girl gives me disinterest? Nah, I approach regardless. Take a look at this video: Granted, I handled the set really bad, but still, I approach and keep at it. I have opened 2000 sets in less than a year. That's an average of maybe 5 sets a day, EVERYDAY. If you pick and chose easy targets here and there, you are playing "safe" game, and you aren't playing to get better. | ||
David451
United States491 Posts
On November 01 2011 14:57 sunprince wrote: And how exactly does that help people who are learning pick-up because they want to find a girlfriend or get laid every night without spending a ton of money on girls? It doesn't, but neither does the PUA community. You can peacock until feathers come out your ass, you can palm read until your hands bleed, but you'll still be fucking your fist when the night is over. Want a girlfriend that's better than what you can get right now? There is no shortcut. Work on making grades. Work on your career. Work on your hobbies. Work out. | ||
squattincassanova
United States650 Posts
Nobody palm reads. Thats a crutch to get you started. A five year old wears floates in the pool, it eventually comes off. | ||
David451
United States491 Posts
On July 26 2011 20:19 squattincassanova wrote: Duck, I dont spend hours giving people advice because there are too much literature out there. People ask a lot of hypothetical questions that are not needed to be answered at that time. The lesson is that you need to take the leap of faith and figure it out on the way, not try and map everything before you take the first step. These guys keep fixating on all these questions before they even make their first approach. That's called Mental Masturbation and that's the problem. The only way to help a newb is literally to threaten to kick his ass when hes out in field in order to make him approach. That's what my mentor did to me. He made me do a direct opener on a 14 year old and also on 2 super tall black chicks from the ghetto. From then on, I lost like 99% of my Approach Anxiety. In the meantime, enjoy my latest set of tonight. It's shit like this, PUA community. Let's see. This guy is muscular, handsome, and tall. Yeah, thank god for PUA techniques! | ||
saocyn
United States937 Posts
On November 01 2011 15:22 David451 wrote: It's shit like this, PUA community. Let's see. This guy is muscular, handsome, and tall. Yeah, thank god for PUA techniques! i don't know what's wrong with you or if you're jealous with his success, but i'm willing to bet on it that he took advantage of looks, his height and getting his physique in order DUE to "pua techniques" and understandings. i've gamed guys who had better builds than me, since i don't work out at all and i've taken the girl away countless fucking times over guys who who had VIP tables and money coming out of their ass and other guys who clearly had an advantage over me, like doctors and people who had what you call "careers, money, height, and looks good" i don't care how built you are, how tall you are, how much money you make, if you can't hold a conversation past 5 minutes and you don't know how to escalate, you're still fucked buddy.. and i'll take you on in any club or bar anyday of the week. i'll let you go and talk to any woman and even all the women first and i'm willing to bet even with all these things you think are advantages, or you have are advantages, i'm willing to bet you'll still fuck it up and get blown out. | ||
squattincassanova
United States650 Posts
On November 01 2011 15:22 David451 wrote: It's shit like this, PUA community. Let's see. This guy is muscular, handsome, and tall. Yeah, thank god for PUA techniques! Nobody said after getting into Pickup that you can't workout, fix your fashion, and take care of your skin If you are short, hell... you can wear platform shoes. That's all part of pickup. Did you really think pickup is just about going outside like a Quasimodo cave troll with pimply face and a stinky t-shirt and just throw some canned routines and girls are just hypnotized and jump into your bed? The matter of fact is, looks do matter. I do abuse it to accelerate my growth. BUT, looks is not everything. I know guys who are 8 inches shorter that blows me out of the water. It can be compensated by good game but everything else has to be tight. | ||
David451
United States491 Posts
On November 01 2011 15:36 saocyn wrote: i don't know what's wrong with you or if you're jealous with his success, but i'm willing to bet on it that he took advantage of looks, his height and getting his physique in order DUE to "pua techniques" and understandings. i've gamed guys who had better builds than me, since i don't work out at all and i've taken the girl away countless fucking times over guys who who had VIP tables and money coming out of their ass and other guys who clearly had an advantage over me, like doctors and people who had what you call "careers, money, height, and looks good" i don't care how built you are, how tall you are, how much money you make, if you can't hold a conversation past 5 minutes and you don't know how to escalate, you're still fucked buddy.. and i'll take you on in any club or bar anyday of the week. i'll let you go and talk to any woman and even all the women first and i'm willing to bet even with all these things you think are advantages, or you have are advantages, i'm willing to bet you'll still fuck it up and get blown out. Dude, the girl isn't even as good looking as him. If you honestly consider that an example of success, I only have to laugh. I'll pass on your challenge. I'm perfectly happy with my girlfriend, who is ten times better looking than me and even makes more money. | ||
saocyn
United States937 Posts
do you have your wing take the picture or do you have a friend of the girl or a random take the picture? i'm assuming since those pictures are generally the same you have either the girl's friend take it or your wing cause it's pretty consistent mind sharing it? also what camera do you use, cause the one i use just broke and it's pretty bad. my pictures don't come out as great quality as yours or close cause i generally take the picture myself through a phone when i kiss the girl. | ||
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