This girl broke up with her boyfriend causes he is a d-bag (they always seem to be too) and we started hooking up. Well she had second thoughts too and told me she has to choose between us, but she is leaning towards me. But she wanted to have a talk with her ex so he was coming over. This was back in the days of aim so I patently waited for her to get back on and tell me how it went. To my horrer or saw an away message that said "her and her old bf together forever"
I was devastated. Like completely. BUT I did the right thing and didn't let it ruin my life, i did the right thing and tried to move on.
Heres the twist, she ended up breaking up with her bf again about a month later and we hooked up again (now alot of people back then said she was just playing me, and looking back I could see why they would think that).
Well our 4 year anniversary is this month and im still as much in love with her as I was on my 1 month anniversary.
Im a very firm believer in if its meant to be its meant to be. Don't push to hard but also don't deny your options.