There is one girl I met during my physical therapy session. She wasn't super cute or pretty, but she had a very intriguing look to me (especially her smile was extremely charming to me). When I have decided to talk to her, it was pretty easy to get into a conversation with her. After several visits, I have decided to ask for her number, so we can go to the movies together.
I had a good time, and she seemed at least pretty interested in me because she was texting me a bunch. She also enjoyed it when I went to her favorite bakery to get her favorite breakfast to help her endure the long days.
However, there were several reasons why this good feeling didn't last too long. I realized how fundamentally different we are. Despite that factor, I was still interested in her for a bit. After much thinking, I realized that I liked her because I enjoyed the thrills of flirting and dating. I haven't done it in a long time, because I have been focusing on my career development lately. Although there is the option to pursue a casual relationship, the problem is that this is not the right girl for a casual relationship because she is a sincere, genuinely nice, down-to-earth girl. I feel that that approach would be extremely inappropriate for her.
Furthermore, her texting became less frequent, signifying that the interest might be dying out. As for my part, I have realized that it would be better if I choose the friendship approach because she is still a good person to have around. If anything, she has motivated me to find new physical hobbies. Right now, I have chosen to sign up for a MMA Academy (Krav Maga), because I realized that I need more exhilaration in my life (after years, going to the gym to workout just doesn't give me that same feeling). Perhaps, this session will grant me the excitement I have been looking for.
If you have a girl in your heart, sometimes, take a step back and ask yourself why you like her. If you like her for who she is, then my story might be irrelevant to you. However, if you like her for being able to play the relationship game once more, then you should really consider another non-relationship related option to fulfill that emptiness within you. I hope my story provided some solace for you guys! :D