Girl Confusion - Page 3
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nerium
Philippines512 Posts
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BoRo
58 Posts
again I love reading these. Men thought process is just as jacked as girls thought process. Sounds like this girl wants to be more then friends but doesn't want to be the one to make the decision. It's a mind fuck, but not totally, it's a "I like this guy, but I want to make it his decision to go for me so I don't have to deal with rejection." (also sounds like a highschool girl move, her mind fuck abilities have yet to reach full potential) Girls are master of the "mind fuck" though, it's in our genes it's what we do best. And their are multiple versions of it. I've caught myself doing them and not realized it til later. I'd make a list of all of them, but that would take days haha and i can't reveal all girls secrets. LOL Guys have testosterone and urges to get in fights and such, While women have estrogen and mind control abilities (like infestors) haha It's a system of control. She's dropping huge hints but not making any real aggressive moves so you can be the aggressor. It's also a self defense. You don't make a move, she thinks your not into her and she only has to deal with getting over her crush (takes about a month). You make a move and she gets the man she's been wanting. If she were to make a move on you and you reject her, she has to deal with the embarrassment, the feeling of being rejected and the punch in the face that is called, " why doesn't he want me, am I ugly, fat...yada yada" That's a bruise that take awhile to heal. Also CALL HER! I hate the text flirting crap. You can't tell emotions or read tone of voice. (emoticons are not real emotions, i put smiley faces on insults) You REALLY wanna know how she feels CALL HER and flirt, you will hear in her voice if she is being flirty joking (higher pitched, tee hee your funny) or joking joking (lower tone, Oh yeah that would be ideal, nerp nerp) Well that's all i have time for to write. I got sleeping to do. BoRo out | ||
Revolt
United States288 Posts
which is probably clear that she does want you to be her man, can't give you much advice, would have to see things for myself. afterall your perception might be different from the reality. | ||
love1another
United States1844 Posts
On August 14 2010 08:50 Divinek wrote: threads like this give me a good use for the 1 star option No. No No. You save the previous 1-stars for my blogs | ||
Klockan3
Sweden2866 Posts
On August 14 2010 15:25 BoRo wrote: you will hear in her voice if she is being flirty joking (higher pitched, tee hee your funny) Personally I hate when girls do that, so annoying, I talk about things and they laugh at literally everything I say! WTF?!??!! Is she an idiot or what??? | ||
love1another
United States1844 Posts
On August 14 2010 16:19 Klockan3 wrote: Personally I hate when girls do that, so annoying, I talk about things and they laugh at literally everything I say! WTF?!??!! Is she an idiot or what??? No. She just loves you! | ||
3FFA
United States3931 Posts
On August 14 2010 16:19 Klockan3 wrote: Personally I hate when girls do that, so annoying, I talk about things and they laugh at literally everything I say! WTF?!??!! Is she an idiot or what??? You're not alone man. I have gotten only 2 GFs and planning on taking a 3rd soon but I can't help but feel I missed 20 chances for girls in the past 2 years because I thought they were idiots or something. edit: u edited out the part that this is why u didn't get any GFs as thats what my post was directed towards D:. | ||
Klockan3
Sweden2866 Posts
On August 14 2010 16:23 3FFA wrote: You're not alone man. I have gotten only 2 GFs and planning on taking a 3rd soon but I can't help but feel I missed 20 chances for girls in the past 2 years because I thought they were idiots or something. edit: u edited out the part that this is why u didn't get any GFs as thats what my post was directed towards D:. Sorry, I just thought that my post was funnier this way! What I edited out was something like: "Personally I prefer girls who are calm and secure, maybe that's why I haven't gotten any girlfriend...". But how do you respect someone who feels like a moron when you talk to her? | ||
love1another
United States1844 Posts
On August 14 2010 16:40 Klockan3 wrote: Sorry, I just thought that my post was funnier this way! What I edited out was something like: "Personally I prefer girls who are calm and secure, maybe that's why I haven't gotten any girlfriend...". But how do you respect someone who feels like a moron when you talk to her? You look at her and go "awwwww...." and all trepidation melts away. | ||
3FFA
United States3931 Posts
On August 14 2010 16:52 love1another wrote: You look at her and go "awwwww...." and all trepidation melts away. I'm gonna try this, thy 1another. O wait.... weren't u the guy who said not to listen to u? 0.0 Now I'm confused edit: wait, earlier this year u were concerned about squishing boobs in a hug and how to hug someone at the same height as u..... | ||
Impervious
Canada4119 Posts
A lesbian I know told me once that if she was straight, she would totally date me. Mind you, this was shortly after both of us were checking out a girl in a short skirt..... How the fuck do you interpret that? You've got much to learn. But, in this situation, you need to just go for it before it's too late..... | ||
Zortch
Canada635 Posts
That makes me feel angry! | ||
Slayer91
Ireland23335 Posts
On August 14 2010 15:25 BoRo wrote: Haha thanks love1another for the pitch haha again I love reading these. Men thought process is just as jacked as girls thought process. Sounds like this girl wants to be more then friends but doesn't want to be the one to make the decision. It's a mind fuck, but not totally, it's a "I like this guy, but I want to make it his decision to go for me so I don't have to deal with rejection." (also sounds like a highschool girl move, her mind fuck abilities have yet to reach full potential) Girls are master of the "mind fuck" though, it's in our genes it's what we do best. And their are multiple versions of it. I've caught myself doing them and not realized it til later. I'd make a list of all of them, but that would take days haha and i can't reveal all girls secrets. LOL Guys have testosterone and urges to get in fights and such, While women have estrogen and mind control abilities (like infestors) haha It's a system of control. She's dropping huge hints but not making any real aggressive moves so you can be the aggressor. It's also a self defense. You don't make a move, she thinks your not into her and she only has to deal with getting over her crush (takes about a month). You make a move and she gets the man she's been wanting. If she were to make a move on you and you reject her, she has to deal with the embarrassment, the feeling of being rejected and the punch in the face that is called, " why doesn't he want me, am I ugly, fat...yada yada" That's a bruise that take awhile to heal. Also CALL HER! I hate the text flirting crap. You can't tell emotions or read tone of voice. (emoticons are not real emotions, i put smiley faces on insults) You REALLY wanna know how she feels CALL HER and flirt, you will hear in her voice if she is being flirty joking (higher pitched, tee hee your funny) or joking joking (lower tone, Oh yeah that would be ideal, nerp nerp) Well that's all i have time for to write. I got sleeping to do. BoRo out Woah. Looks like somebody just decrypted a code or something. Makes so much sense now. Mind = blown | ||
jon arbuckle
Canada443 Posts
Maybe you should focus on Normal types. | ||
ilovezil
United States4143 Posts
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Bereft
United States1007 Posts
On August 15 2010 00:55 ilovezil wrote: So is she white or something? If she likes asian men... well, actually I don't know personally of any race that likes asian men :/ na, she sounds asian to me. | ||
Fulgrim
United States560 Posts
On August 15 2010 00:55 jon arbuckle wrote: Perhaps you are a Fighting type and therefore you are weak to Confusion. Maybe you should focus on Normal types. Best advice in this thread, sometimes psychic ones have resistance to fighting. OT: I think that its pretty clear she likes you, she knew what she was saying when she texted you, and its such an odd text to get as a "joke". Go for it man, I think she's in to you. | ||
Talent.L
119 Posts
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3FFA
United States3931 Posts
On August 15 2010 05:59 Talent.L wrote: Thanks guys for your advice T-T it's just that a few weeks back she said something along the lines of "I see you as my brother", and now all that boyfriend crap :< I don't get how its crap but wtf. If u have to explain why u were taking so long to ask her to be ur GF I would show her ur TL.net blog Also, does she know ur into SC? | ||
Talent.L
119 Posts
On August 15 2010 06:09 3FFA wrote: I don't get how its crap but wtf. If u have to explain why u were taking so long to ask her to be ur GF I would show her ur TL.net blog Also, does she know ur into SC? Yeah she does know about my obsession with sc lol, but no way in hell I would show her this blog ^^; im not taking long to ask her to be my gf :< i'm just a bit confused, that's all | ||
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