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On August 17 2010 02:00 Cambium wrote:Show nested quote +On August 17 2010 01:55 ilovezil wrote:On August 17 2010 01:48 Cambium wrote:On August 17 2010 01:44 Talent.L wrote:On August 17 2010 01:42 FabledIntegral wrote: I take it you're still in high school and haven't been exposed to the college scene of everyone making out with everyone?
There's a massive difference between a girl cheating on her bf (I would consider even just pecks on the lips cheating) and a girl deciding to make out with different guys while drunk. Some of the most innocent girls I know have had a night where they go out and make out with 2, or even 3 guys in a night, yet I know they've never even been felt up before, let alone given a bj or had sex. yeah you are right. I'm in year 1 and...not much partying for me because i was studying hard 8) so i wouldn't know things like that i guess :O You need to get laid, and I say it with all sincerity. Think of it more like a physical experience. It'll make you less uptight about your archaic beliefs. What's funny is that the whole issue with keeping your virginity for a special time like marriage or finding the absolute right person is that if you do lose it before then, you won't ever find out if you were right or wrong. On the flip side, if you do keep it for the right person, you probably won't know what you're doing right or wrong, so an otherwise better situation with some experience would possibly turn out to be a horrible time. Then again, I could just be plain wrong in the latter case. I'm a little drunk, so I didn't really get that. But, the problem I see with keeping your virginity for the right person is that, what if the sex is absolutely horrible?
Haha, that's exactly what I mentioned in that latter statement. I often wonder what a first time is like for those who save their sex for the right time.
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you guys are getting off topic! > what should i do to get rid of the jealousy mentality? help guys?
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On August 17 2010 01:55 Talent.L wrote:Show nested quote +On August 17 2010 01:50 FabledIntegral wrote: P.S. I lost my virginity not to a complete stranger, but to someone I had absolutely no feelings for, and I don't regret it at all. It's not even a slightly life-altering experience. I felt slightly different after my first kiss. I didn't feel anything after the sex.
I honestly don't even feel like it's that much different, if different at all, with a gf than a random person. seriously? :o i used to know a friend of mine who um...saves her first kiss for the guy she really likes...a bit more extreme than losing virginity lol, but I could see where she was coming from tho because im pretty soft when it comes to these things XD
I was too. When I was in high school I figured I would have no problem waiting to marriage if I really cared about the girl. I didn't have my first kiss until around the end of my sophmore year. At the time I also thought anyone who even tried smoking weed was bound to end up shooting heroine in a dark alleyway and those who drank in high schools were losers in society.
Once you actually have the sexual experience, despite it being great and always craving it, you'll realize it's not even anywhere close to what you fantasize it to be before having it... although you'll be even more eager to get it than before... weird eh?
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On August 17 2010 02:02 Talent.L wrote:you guys are getting off topic! > what should i do to get rid of the jealousy mentality? help guys?
Get laid... and I'm not joking. You'll know better not to judge once you "sink" yourself to their levels.
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On August 17 2010 02:02 Talent.L wrote:you guys are getting off topic! > what should i do to get rid of the jealousy mentality? help guys?
Make out with people yourself while drunk. You have to be in the situation to finally realize "wow, this is nothing like I thought it would be." I'm dead serious, you'll always have that mentality until you experience it yourself and realize it's not a big deal.
I don't know a SINGLE person who didn't change their mind on judging drunk people after they decided to finally get drunk themselves.
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On August 17 2010 01:16 Talent.L wrote:Show nested quote +On August 17 2010 01:12 Hawk wrote:On August 17 2010 01:05 ilovezil wrote:On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote:On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this.
Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. To be fair, it seemed he was referring more to the whole idea of "making out with random guys while drunk and sleeping together", although he was pretty ambiguous either way. I think the main argument lies with the sleeping together part. Of course, I could be wrong and it could lie down with multiple issues. He also said he could care less if they had sex or not. For all he knows, the girl went home to watch a movie and snuggle with the dude, and that would be just as bad as sloppy drunk sex in his mind. On August 17 2010 01:07 Talent.L wrote:On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote:On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this.
Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. And that confirms it Dunno bout you guys, but I'm not friends with people who pass judgment on me like that, especially when they don't even know what happened! So you will be okay if your girlfriend went to a club, got drunk, and made out with random dudes. Nice Wait a minute. First it is 'female friend' and now it is 'girlfriend'? That's quite an important distinction in this discussion, and you're messing it up.
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On August 17 2010 02:02 Talent.L wrote:you guys are getting off topic! > what should i do to get rid of the jealousy mentality? help guys?
Well, I've said it before but you have to decide for yourself. As you grow older, your beliefs will mold according to how you interpret what's right or wrong, probably with influence by your peers or society. I don't think you can really do anything about your jealous mentality except continue on with your experiences and see how it ends down the road.
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On August 17 2010 02:03 Cambium wrote:Show nested quote +On August 17 2010 02:02 Talent.L wrote:you guys are getting off topic! > what should i do to get rid of the jealousy mentality? help guys? Get laid... and I'm not joking. You'll know better not to judge once you "sink" yourself to their levels.
.... =_= any more realistic suggestions? lol
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On August 17 2010 00:20 Talent.L wrote:Show nested quote +On August 17 2010 00:17 Hawk wrote: Do you ask potential dates to prove that their hymen isn't broken yet?? Jesus. I think you should be more judgemental.
You must be a real winner to shit on your friend who kissed a dude at a club. She's impure now dude.
You're going to be severely disappointed when you find that not many people share your hilariously romanticized beliefs. man what's your problem? I'm just presenting my point of view on things. Calm down. Don't worry, I'm severely disappointed enough, and I don't really find my morals to be hilariously funny. Morals are fine but impose them on yourself not others. Losing respect for a friend because she kissed guys at a club is insane. You'll grow out of this I hope, that sort of promiscuity isn't a big deal. You're just jealous of the people who aren't wound up as tight as you.
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On August 17 2010 02:05 Talent.L wrote:Show nested quote +On August 17 2010 02:03 Cambium wrote:On August 17 2010 02:02 Talent.L wrote:you guys are getting off topic! > what should i do to get rid of the jealousy mentality? help guys? Get laid... and I'm not joking. You'll know better not to judge once you "sink" yourself to their levels. .... =_= any more realistic suggestions? lol
...... that was my realistic suggestion. It's much better than something like, "just try not to judge"
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On August 17 2010 02:05 Badjas wrote:Show nested quote +On August 17 2010 01:16 Talent.L wrote:On August 17 2010 01:12 Hawk wrote:On August 17 2010 01:05 ilovezil wrote:On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote:On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this.
Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. To be fair, it seemed he was referring more to the whole idea of "making out with random guys while drunk and sleeping together", although he was pretty ambiguous either way. I think the main argument lies with the sleeping together part. Of course, I could be wrong and it could lie down with multiple issues. He also said he could care less if they had sex or not. For all he knows, the girl went home to watch a movie and snuggle with the dude, and that would be just as bad as sloppy drunk sex in his mind. On August 17 2010 01:07 Talent.L wrote:On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote:On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this.
Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. And that confirms it Dunno bout you guys, but I'm not friends with people who pass judgment on me like that, especially when they don't even know what happened! So you will be okay if your girlfriend went to a club, got drunk, and made out with random dudes. Nice Wait a minute. First it is 'female friend' and now it is 'girlfriend'? That's quite an important distinction in this discussion, and you're messing it up.
yeah my bad...i was talking (or was trying) about the girlfriend
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On August 17 2010 02:05 Talent.L wrote:Show nested quote +On August 17 2010 02:03 Cambium wrote:On August 17 2010 02:02 Talent.L wrote:you guys are getting off topic! > what should i do to get rid of the jealousy mentality? help guys? Get laid... and I'm not joking. You'll know better not to judge once you "sink" yourself to their levels. .... =_= any more realistic suggestions? lol
It's actually probably the best one. I think you getting drunk and just making out with some girls would suffice though. This is the cure for almost everyone I know. Experience yourself and realize it's not what you've always thought it to be.
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On August 17 2010 02:05 Badjas wrote:Show nested quote +On August 17 2010 01:16 Talent.L wrote:On August 17 2010 01:12 Hawk wrote:On August 17 2010 01:05 ilovezil wrote:On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote:On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this.
Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. To be fair, it seemed he was referring more to the whole idea of "making out with random guys while drunk and sleeping together", although he was pretty ambiguous either way. I think the main argument lies with the sleeping together part. Of course, I could be wrong and it could lie down with multiple issues. He also said he could care less if they had sex or not. For all he knows, the girl went home to watch a movie and snuggle with the dude, and that would be just as bad as sloppy drunk sex in his mind. On August 17 2010 01:07 Talent.L wrote:On August 17 2010 01:00 Hawk wrote:On August 17 2010 00:03 Talent.L wrote: All of this got me thinking when a female friend of mine went to a club and deliberately made out with random guys while drunk and slept together or whatnot. I don’t know if they had sex or not, and I couldn’t care less. I’ve known her for 4 years and I swear to God that I DID NOT KNOW THIS SIDE OF HER WTF!! To make it worse she did it AGAIN just two nights ago at a different club, probably intentionally. She starts to complain about how the second guy is not as cute as the first, and told me it was all part of the “experience” (thank God she doesn’t have a boyfriend). At that point in time I’ve lost all respect for her; I told her that if it wasn’t for our friendship, I would despise her so much, which is very true because I really dislike people like this.
Odd, that seems to be your name and your writing here. I've bolded some parts for emphasis, in case your own writing confuses you. Im just emphasizing on the fact that it's unacceptable for a girl with a bf to do that, but a single girl i guess i'm against the majority or whatever. And that confirms it Dunno bout you guys, but I'm not friends with people who pass judgment on me like that, especially when they don't even know what happened! So you will be okay if your girlfriend went to a club, got drunk, and made out with random dudes. Nice Wait a minute. First it is 'female friend' and now it is 'girlfriend'? That's quite an important distinction in this discussion, and you're messing it up.
As it turns out, the argument narrowed down to what Hawk had a problem with against the issues Talent had. I think I summed up what Talent actually had an issue with in the second page.
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On August 17 2010 02:06 Scarecrow wrote:Show nested quote +On August 17 2010 00:20 Talent.L wrote:On August 17 2010 00:17 Hawk wrote: Do you ask potential dates to prove that their hymen isn't broken yet?? Jesus. I think you should be more judgemental.
You must be a real winner to shit on your friend who kissed a dude at a club. She's impure now dude.
You're going to be severely disappointed when you find that not many people share your hilariously romanticized beliefs. man what's your problem? I'm just presenting my point of view on things. Calm down. Don't worry, I'm severely disappointed enough, and I don't really find my morals to be hilariously funny. Morals are fine but impose them on yourself not others. Losing respect for a friend because she kissed guys at a club is insane. You'll grow out of this I hope, that sort of promiscuity isn't a big deal. You're just jealous of the people who aren't wound up as tight as you.
hmm well...alot of my friends are pretty uptight so I kind of grew into their mentality as well
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This blog turned out to be very entertaining
Makes me miss my innocence...
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On August 17 2010 02:05 Talent.L wrote:Show nested quote +On August 17 2010 02:03 Cambium wrote:On August 17 2010 02:02 Talent.L wrote:you guys are getting off topic! > what should i do to get rid of the jealousy mentality? help guys? Get laid... and I'm not joking. You'll know better not to judge once you "sink" yourself to their levels. .... =_= any more realistic suggestions? lol
It is a real suggestion...now you're singling out what's "real" according to your own standards.
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On August 17 2010 02:02 ilovezil wrote:Show nested quote +On August 17 2010 02:00 Cambium wrote:On August 17 2010 01:55 ilovezil wrote:On August 17 2010 01:48 Cambium wrote:On August 17 2010 01:44 Talent.L wrote:On August 17 2010 01:42 FabledIntegral wrote: I take it you're still in high school and haven't been exposed to the college scene of everyone making out with everyone?
There's a massive difference between a girl cheating on her bf (I would consider even just pecks on the lips cheating) and a girl deciding to make out with different guys while drunk. Some of the most innocent girls I know have had a night where they go out and make out with 2, or even 3 guys in a night, yet I know they've never even been felt up before, let alone given a bj or had sex. yeah you are right. I'm in year 1 and...not much partying for me because i was studying hard 8) so i wouldn't know things like that i guess :O You need to get laid, and I say it with all sincerity. Think of it more like a physical experience. It'll make you less uptight about your archaic beliefs. What's funny is that the whole issue with keeping your virginity for a special time like marriage or finding the absolute right person is that if you do lose it before then, you won't ever find out if you were right or wrong. On the flip side, if you do keep it for the right person, you probably won't know what you're doing right or wrong, so an otherwise better situation with some experience would possibly turn out to be a horrible time. Then again, I could just be plain wrong in the latter case. I'm a little drunk, so I didn't really get that. But, the problem I see with keeping your virginity for the right person is that, what if the sex is absolutely horrible? Haha, that's exactly what I mentioned in that latter statement. I often wonder what a first time is like for those who save their sex for the right time.
Okay, I just re-read that like three times, and I think I get what you are saying now. It's kinda sad that if you've never had sex, and you do it with Mr/Ms. Right, you won't even know if the sex is good or bad
But I guess that's how those people live with it.
Ignorance is bliss
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On August 17 2010 02:09 Cambium wrote:This blog turned out to be very entertaining Makes me miss my innocence...
I agree that this blog was entertaining. I haven't mass posted like this in a while, let alone in one thread.
On August 17 2010 02:11 Cambium wrote:Show nested quote +On August 17 2010 02:02 ilovezil wrote:On August 17 2010 02:00 Cambium wrote:On August 17 2010 01:55 ilovezil wrote:On August 17 2010 01:48 Cambium wrote:On August 17 2010 01:44 Talent.L wrote:On August 17 2010 01:42 FabledIntegral wrote: I take it you're still in high school and haven't been exposed to the college scene of everyone making out with everyone?
There's a massive difference between a girl cheating on her bf (I would consider even just pecks on the lips cheating) and a girl deciding to make out with different guys while drunk. Some of the most innocent girls I know have had a night where they go out and make out with 2, or even 3 guys in a night, yet I know they've never even been felt up before, let alone given a bj or had sex. yeah you are right. I'm in year 1 and...not much partying for me because i was studying hard 8) so i wouldn't know things like that i guess :O You need to get laid, and I say it with all sincerity. Think of it more like a physical experience. It'll make you less uptight about your archaic beliefs. What's funny is that the whole issue with keeping your virginity for a special time like marriage or finding the absolute right person is that if you do lose it before then, you won't ever find out if you were right or wrong. On the flip side, if you do keep it for the right person, you probably won't know what you're doing right or wrong, so an otherwise better situation with some experience would possibly turn out to be a horrible time. Then again, I could just be plain wrong in the latter case. I'm a little drunk, so I didn't really get that. But, the problem I see with keeping your virginity for the right person is that, what if the sex is absolutely horrible? Haha, that's exactly what I mentioned in that latter statement. I often wonder what a first time is like for those who save their sex for the right time. Okay, I just re-read that like three times, and I think I get what you are saying now. It's kinda sad that if you've never had sex, and you do it with Mr/Ms. Right, you won't even know if the sex is good or bad But I guess that's how those people live with it. Ignorance is bliss
Yea, I sort of see it as a paradox. You can't travel down both paths, so the ones that try to keep their virginity will have a hard time.
A very HARD time.
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On August 17 2010 02:06 FabledIntegral wrote:Show nested quote +On August 17 2010 02:05 Talent.L wrote:On August 17 2010 02:03 Cambium wrote:On August 17 2010 02:02 Talent.L wrote:you guys are getting off topic! > what should i do to get rid of the jealousy mentality? help guys? Get laid... and I'm not joking. You'll know better not to judge once you "sink" yourself to their levels. .... =_= any more realistic suggestions? lol It's actually probably the best one. I think you getting drunk and just making out with some girls would suffice though. This is the cure for almost everyone I know. Experience yourself and realize it's not what you've always thought it to be.
yeah but the problem is...i dont think my own personality is too attractive :/ im too quiet and non-talkative.. and not to brag or anything but from the once or twice drinking parties I tend to not get drunk easily o_o everyone would be falling right and left and im still sitting there feeling nothing
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Btw my first time I couldn't find the hole. Watch out for that shit. It's not as easy as it looks in porn, takes some practice! ahhahaah
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