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DivinO
United States4796 Posts
Back off, he's mine. | ||
Jaaaaasper
United States10225 Posts
On September 10 2013 13:06 dravernor wrote: Didn't you offer to fly guys to her house for a gang bang? I hear that's not a good way to pick up girls... Hey I also told her how to talk to guys from the Internet so as to remove their chances of talking to girls, much less having sex, and gave her an excuse to go shoe shopping. I think I was the good guy there. | ||
slyderturtle
United States267 Posts
On September 10 2013 07:47 red_hq wrote: Same: trans and gender-queer people are the best. <3 The lady dicks. Not so much all the weird baggage that comes with gender-weirdness, but it's a small price to pay. hey just letting you know, that post is kinda insensitive in case you were wondering... I mean I don't like identify as male because I don't like the things associated with it, but I definitely am no a "lady dick". Not to mention the "weird baggage" that you're so against. | ||
Dubz
United States242 Posts
On September 10 2013 13:44 slyderturtle wrote: hey just letting you know, that post is kinda insensitive in case you were wondering... I mean I don't like identify as male because I don't like the things associated with it, but I definitely am no a "lady dick". Not to mention the "weird baggage" that you're so against. someones being insensitive on an anonymous internet forum? we've got a problem here. | ||
SilentchiLL
Germany1405 Posts
On September 10 2013 13:44 slyderturtle wrote: hey just letting you know, that post is kinda insensitive in case you were wondering... I mean I don't like identify as male because I don't like the things associated with it, but I definitely am no a "lady dick". Not to mention the "weird baggage" that you're so against. Well, to his defense. If you identify as a girl and have a penis you probably have a "lady dick" (I mean, atleast it would be one way to describe it...). And most trans people have "weird baggage", nothing to be ashamed about and he never said he's really against it, but every person who'd say that they wouldn't mind that stuff at all would be lying, he even said it's a small price to pay so I guess he'd be okay with it. In the end, he's not being insensitive but you're being too sensitive here (atleast in my opinion). (I'm neither transgendered nor anything else of that sort, heterosexual male here who just got to know a suprising amount of people with rather interestering stories about their gender.) EDIT: My spelling is horrible this morning for some reason. | ||
red_hq
Canada450 Posts
On September 10 2013 13:44 slyderturtle wrote: hey just letting you know, that post is kinda insensitive in case you were wondering... I mean I don't like identify as male because I don't like the things associated with it, but I definitely am no a "lady dick". Not to mention the "weird baggage" that you're so against. Maybe, I think you're misinterpreting the term lady dick. What I meant was if you identify more as a lady and have a dick, I ♥your dick. I say it in much the way people say I like big titties or a nice ass, I enjoy a gender mis-matched penis. I also find androgynous people to be very attractive. By baggage I mean all the struggles that commonly come with gender dysphoria. Like depression, self esteem issues, and social.stigmas. I don't want to deal with these things but I do anyway becaise it's such a small issue compared to being able to stay with and get to know such unique and beautiful people. It's the same way people might not want to deal with their girlfriend's OCD or self esteem issues but do anyway because they love them. I'd rather that gender queer people not have these issues either but because they do I have to accept that and help them because I am attracted to them. | ||
Deleted User 183001
2939 Posts
On September 09 2013 22:23 idonthinksobro wrote: most dating sites are sausage fests no different on tl. Online dating is terrible. 95% of the time you will just find potential pickups or messed up girls at best. Meeting girls is easy. The problem is, if you go to a social venue and meet strangers, very rarely will a girl ever want to go further than that day/night, unless she's particularly lonely in life (I've come across these types and they're scary). So basically, you're put in a double bind. lol | ||
SilentchiLL
Germany1405 Posts
On September 10 2013 16:57 red_hq wrote: Maybe, I think you're misinterpreting the term lady dick. What I meant was if you identify more as a lady and have a dick, I ♥your dick. I say it in much the way people say i like big titties or a nice ass, I enjoy a gender mis-matched penis. I also find androgynous peiple to be very attractive. By baggage I mean all the struggles that commonly come with gender dysphoria. Like depression, self esteem issues, and social.stigmas. I don't want to deal with these things but I do anyway becaise it's such a small issue compared to being able to stay with and get to know such unique and beautiful people. It's the same way people might not want to deal with their girlfriend's OCD or self esteem issues but do anyway because they love them. I'd rather that gender queer people not have these issues either but because they do I have to accept that and hepp them because I am attracted to them. I guess that also awnsers the question if your first post was ment as a joke, lol. Where's the difference between a both kinds of dicks? I couldn't even understand why somebody would like a regular dick, but making such a big difference out of something that's anatomically the same seems very interestering to me. (I do know that sexuality is mostly psychological so that they are anatomically identical probably isn't that important afterall, but as a straight guy a dick is... just a dick to me <__<). | ||
IAmWithStupid
Russian Federation1016 Posts
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red_hq
Canada450 Posts
On September 10 2013 17:05 SilentchiLL wrote: I guess that also awnsers the question if your first post was ment as a joke, lol. Where's the difference between a both kinds of dicks? I couldn't even understand why somebody would like a regular dick, but making such a big difference out of something that's anatomically the same seems very interestering to me. (I do know that sexuality is mostly psychological so that they are anatomically identical probably isn't that important afterall, but as a straight guy a dick is... just a dick to me <__<). Your right that blindfolded I probably wouldn't be able to tell the difference (despite probably enjoying myself thoroughly). It's less the physical appearance and more how they act. Lady dick seems like the simplest and easiest way to describe it. Edit: and to add what I said before: On September 10 2013 13:44 slyderturtle wrote: hey just letting you know, that post is kinda insensitive in case you were wondering... I mean I don't like identify as male because I don't like the things associated with it, but I definitely am no a "lady dick". Not to mention the "weird baggage" that you're so against. I never said you had a lady dick or had a lot of weird baggage. I only meant that people who meet my definition of having a lady dick usually don't identify strongly with a gender and have all sorts of emotional baggage that comes with gender dysphoria. It's also a joke i used to make with my last partner. You're probably right that I should use more tactful terms if I am to start courting someone androgynous again, at least until they know me better. | ||
SilentchiLL
Germany1405 Posts
On September 10 2013 18:05 red_hq wrote: Your right that blindfolded I probably wouldn't be able to tell the difference (despite probably enjoying myself thoroughly). It's less the physical appearance and more how they act. Lady dick seems like the simplest and easiest way to describe it. You're a weird fuck. But I like that, because so am I (even though our weirdness seems to be very far apart sexually). | ||
catplanetcatplanet
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Hot_Bid
Braavos36362 Posts
@Hot_Bid Gender: Male Looking for: Female | ||
SilentchiLL
Germany1405 Posts
On September 11 2013 00:49 Hot_Bid wrote: Ken Chen @Hot_Bid Gender: Male Looking for: Female The sad thing about this is that Hot_bid is the only one here who may actually have success in this thread. Time to call the cute optician who broke my glasses then. | ||
dravernor
Netherlands6175 Posts
On September 11 2013 00:53 SilentchiLL wrote: The sad thing about this is that Hot_bid is the only one here who may actually have success in this thread. Time to call the cute optician who broke my glasses then. Why do you think that? | ||
SilentchiLL
Germany1405 Posts
Because she has pretty eyes and was into me. | ||
dravernor
Netherlands6175 Posts
On September 11 2013 02:07 SilentchiLL wrote: Because she has pretty eyes and was into me. Haha! I meant about Hot_Bid being the only one to get action from this thread? Reading your reply in that context confused the shit out of me. But gl with the optician lady! | ||
SilentchiLL
Germany1405 Posts
On September 11 2013 02:09 dravernor wrote: Haha! I meant about Hot_Bid being the only one to get action from this thread? Reading your reply in that context confused the shit out of me. But gl with the optician lady! I know what you ment, that was the joke . Not the stuff about the optician, but I ain't gonna call her (video games > lovelife, obviously). And the awnser would be: because it's Hot_bid. | ||
Caihead
Canada8550 Posts
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Firebolt145
Lalalaland34457 Posts
On September 11 2013 00:49 Hot_Bid wrote: Ken Chen @Hot_Bid Gender: Male Looking for: Female Haaaaaaave you met Kiett? | ||
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