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Topin
Peru9939 Posts
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MarlieChurphy
United States2063 Posts
Theres are pretty well understood reasoning as to why women/people become prostitutes and why people are mean to them and why they know they can get away with it. It's psychology stuff. | ||
vOdToasT
Sweden2870 Posts
On January 16 2014 08:35 MarlieChurphy wrote: You said you are angry that you feel you know why he did this? Explain. Maybe a tiny part of him is attracted to the idea of abusing some one (even though a larger part of him is disgusted by it, and wouldn't do it) | ||
Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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vOdToasT
Sweden2870 Posts
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Rainling
United States456 Posts
On January 16 2014 06:00 vOdToasT wrote: Many humans are just evil. They will exploit others for their own benefit when they can. The only way to prevent it is to create a system in which exploitation is difficult, because if it can be done, it will be done. How can you say people are "just evil?" How do you know what's going on in their heads when they do things? You wouldn't consider yourself to be an evil person when you do terrible things, as undoubtedly you have to some extent. I think this sort of behavior results from the same roots that cause you and I to behave unethically: laziness, carelessness, or inability to empathize with others. | ||
Weasel-
Canada1552 Posts
the curse of all white knights | ||
Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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iamho
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vOdToasT
Sweden2870 Posts
On January 16 2014 09:23 Rainling wrote: How can you say people are "just evil?" How do you know what's going on in their heads when they do things? You wouldn't consider yourself to be an evil person when you do terrible things, as undoubtedly you have to some extent. I think this sort of behavior results from the same roots that cause you and I to behave unethically: laziness, carelessness, or inability to empathize with others. Given the right circumstances, it is very likely that I could have become something that I currently consider evil. I don't think we are using the same definition of evil. | ||
Pangpootata
1838 Posts
On January 16 2014 09:44 iamho wrote: Don't be such a priss, the businessman wasn't "evil" because he treated a whore like shit. Who the hell are you to judge other people's consensual business transactions. Getting a blowjob in public is illegal, so technically both the businessman and the bar girl are criminals. | ||
vOdToasT
Sweden2870 Posts
On January 16 2014 08:11 LockeTazeline wrote: If it hurts themselves, that's just as bad as hurting someone else. It may not necessarily hurt them. Some people might not get hurt by having sex for money at all. | ||
Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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vOdToasT
Sweden2870 Posts
On January 16 2014 10:23 Kaeru wrote: If it's their own free choice and up to them what customers to chose. I don't have anything against prostitution. I would just hope that people that buy their service treat them with respect - in the same way I hope that people that hire a gardener treats him with respect... I don't see much difference between a girl asking for money to have sex and a girl having sex with a guy just because he can afford a few bottles of champagne in a nightclub. The difference is honesty and they both are directly or indirectly after money. I'm glad I'm not the only one who considers marrying, (or being in any long lasting sexual relationship) for money a form of long-term prostitution. I don't want to stop people from doing that, I just want all parties involved to be honest - to each other, and to themselves. It is what it is, don't beat around the bush. Also, like you said, I don't want people to abuse their servitors. | ||
tili
United States1332 Posts
On January 16 2014 06:37 Smurfett3 wrote: in the usa, prositution is illegal ! this should be stopped! But this took place in bangkok (bang - kok), prostitution is a job there just like being a mail man or school teacher. They all fall under the "paid services" industry Prostitution is not legal in Thailand. I have no idea why you assumed that. | ||
lichter
1001 YEARS KESPAJAIL22271 Posts
I don't believe that there is any meaning to life, I believe that we are simply born, we live and then we die. Based on your posts, I don't believe you truly believe this to be so. Most sex industries in South East Asia are fueled by tourists from the US and Europe, so I don't believe the problem lies entirely within the local culture. There's even such a thing as "sex tourism" D: | ||
Djzapz
Canada10681 Posts
On January 16 2014 08:52 Kaeru wrote: Some prostitutes in the streets are really annoying, they grab your arm or block your way and start asking "you go with me?" and if you are really nice and say "please, i'm not interested. I am just out to get some food, can you move?". They just ask "Why? You don't like me?" and keep asking questions until you get mad. Just drop religious nonsense at her. Thanks young lady, but ever since discovering Jesus and turning my life around, I haven't been [whatever, she's already gone by then]. | ||
Rainling
United States456 Posts
On January 16 2014 09:52 vOdToasT wrote: Given the right circumstances, it is very likely that I could have become something that I currently consider evil. I don't think we are using the same definition of evil. OK, fair point | ||
Kaeru
Sweden552 Posts
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