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What do you do when you feel like shit? What do you do when you bottle so much inside but there's no one you can share it with... What do you do when everything in life just seems to crumble apart? What do you do when you put forth all your efforts with no results? What do you do when you just want it to end and say "fuck it" and just not care anymore?
What happens... I don't even know.
Any advices or related stories, if there are people out there who feel the same way about life sometimes, please, feel free to share.
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Netherlands45349 Posts
Uh, if you are feeling like the last one I suggest you visit a doctor/Psychiater, because that is suicidal tendencies. When I feel like shit I listen to kpop and look at the girls.
lol.
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lift weights. Power to the People or Starting Strength program.
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i live with 3 girls, so they know when i'm feeling down. i have outlets to vent at any given time.
find a friend who's close to you to so you can just talk about it. they don't have to respond to anything. as long as you're talking out loud to someone it really helps. if not that, then call a brother or sister, or your parents
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Something I do is play piano and write music. I'm a real noob and only picked it up recently but its not very hard to learn although you need the instrument, and it's more of a healthy emotion vent than a skill thing. I used to and still do a bit, have trouble expressing my emotions. I just find that the language of music is a pretty decent way to get it out. It's different for everybody. Comp stomping is fun too.
lol kpop
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I just wait till it goes away,then I just don't care at all,hey I am alive!
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Well you start off by saying...what the fuck. Take a good nap/go to sleep and clear your mind. Then you need to analyze your situation beginning with yourself. What is making you unhappy? What are your goals/expectations and how can you come to realize them? You can think about how you will make a difference in life and think of all the people who love you and truly care about you combined with the infinite potentials that life can hold. I have struggled before with these same problems and this is the stage in life where you must begin to understand life by coming to terms with yourself. Fundamentally you must determine who you are, what are your values, goals, aspirations, skills etc. Relax. You don't need to rush through life trying to live up to empty expectations and societal norms, you don't have to give a shit what others think about you, just be you. Once you can find yourself and find your motivation you can divert this energy to living life to the fullest. I used to think when people said "Attitude is everything" it meant nothing, but indeed only you have the power to determine your course in life. When you are losing control you have to grab control of those reins and whip that shit back into shape. You can also find like-minded people or talk to your friends or family about these issues (assuming they aren't the problem) and most likely you will find that you are not alone. Always remember the potentials of life are infinite and within these wonders you are free to mold the world in your image, so don't waste this opportunity. Dream as if you will live forever and live as if you will die today is a tremendously powerful quote as it is important to cherish your life.
I have been through this exact same situation and I have found that "It is our triumphs that make us different. It is our failures that makes us human. It is death that makes us equal." I have decided to be certain that I can make the world a better place, that I can make a difference, and that I will not waste my one life and be doomed to be forgotten.
If you want to talk PM me or hit me up on skype Doctor.nick.s
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Any advices or related stories, if there are people out there who feel the same way about life sometimes, please, feel free to share.
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See my blogs. No, really, if you're genuinely interested in this subject then my blogs would give you a nice primer on what to live in that mindset is really like. I don't recommend reading them if you don't want to feel even worse, though.
This would be a good place to start. Check out Dear November and the subsequent blogs after it, as well;
http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?id=206254
Here's another good one I wrote a time ago;
http://www.teamliquid.net/blogs/viewblog.php?id=180625
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Take responsibility for the way you feel, your actions, and every result you get in life. Figure out what you really want in life. And go after it!
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stop fucking thinking and go run or something the biggest depressions accumulate over time but only if u let them, anytime ur depressed its your fault, you actually want to be depressed so that people worry about u.. the fact that u took the time to write such a post (,,when everything in life just seems to crumble apart?'', ,,[,...]put forth all your efforts[...]'') means that whatever happened/is happening/you're overthinking isn't a huge deal if i just felt lost and not succesful i would just slap myself and force myself not to think about it, you want to think about it to feel bad (dont ask me why, i have no idea, but it was the same with me), but if something really bad happened like your father dying in a car accident or something tragic, you would have been so depressed that u wouldnt post it here.. thats my reasoning, if ur okay enough to write such a worded post (forth, etc.), i think all you want is to show the world how you feel, which is definitely also exaggerated, remember, people say whining is never good and there are good reasons for that.. i dont want to get too much into psychology but what im saying is that unless something really bad happened that ur doign this to yourself
edit: as i was writing this post, as expected, TL posts stuff like : dont worry, everythings gonna be okay !!11 or love will save ur soul and heal u find friend that cares for u etc.. those thigns might work, but what i think is wrong is your mindset for things, and its more important to fix your personality flaws and learn from whatever experience youre facing than to just wait it up.. if u look at it from this perspective, if u learn from this and improve yourself then whatever happened to you was a good thing
then of course, i have no idea wat happened. if its something really terrible and my guess was wrong then dont think about my post at all, i have to assume since u didnt say anything specific, but judging from the post its just that youre fed up with yourself that u cant find friends, arent succesful and are frustrated with the way you are atm, which nobody but u can help u with
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I live my life by saying "fuck it" and not caring. That's why I play sc2 and browse TL with my time, because all you can do with time is waste it anyway.
For many people depression is a passing emotion that gets you down. For me it is a way of life and the foundation of my personality.
What I do to feel better is write. I write like crazy... I've got pages and pages of writing that I have no idea what to do with. Also, it's great to read GOOD books, meaning authors you can really relate to. Salinger, Hesse, Camus, Hemingway, Nietzsche, Kafka... just off the top of my head.
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Two things I do are 1) sleep and 2) try to preserve the outlook that I might learn (of) something which will enable me to shift my viewpoint to a more positive one, even though there is no evidence for this. But you can't prove a negative, right? Not that irrational imo.
Endure. Observe. Waiting is the only thing you can do to make sure that you don't make a misjudgement.
I recently came across another interesting thing. It reads:
Get Drunk by Charles Baudelaire
One should always be drunk. That’s the great thing; the only question. Not to feel the horrible burden of Time weighing on your shoulders and bowing you to the earth, you should be drunk without respite.
Drunk with what? With wine, with poetry, or with virtue, as you please. But get drunk.
And if sometimes you should happen to awake, on the stairs of a palace, on the green grass of a ditch, in the dreary solitude of your own room, and find that your drunkenness is ebbing or has vanished, ask the wind and the wave, ask star, bird, or clock, ask everything that flies, everything that moans, everything that flows, everything that sings, everything that speaks, ask them the time; and the wind, the wave, the star, the bird and the clock will all reply: “It is Time to get drunk! If you are not to be the martyred slaves of Time, be perpetually drunk! With wine, with poetry, or with virtue, as you please. (source)
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On April 23 2011 09:32 Talent.L wrote: What do you do when you feel like shit? What do you do when you bottle so much inside but there's no one you can share it with... What do you do when everything in life just seems to crumble apart? What do you do when you put forth all your efforts with no results? What do you do when you just want it to end and say "fuck it" and just not care anymore?
What happens... I don't even know.
Any advices or related stories, if there are people out there who feel the same way about life sometimes, please, feel free to share.
;_; Slap yourself in the face hard.
Motivate yourself. I motivate myself with this: Go hit the gym, go get buff, bang some bitches, college, bang bitches, travel, live life.
This life goal makes me quite happy...
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On April 23 2011 10:44 Almin wrote:Show nested quote +On April 23 2011 09:32 Talent.L wrote: What do you do when you feel like shit? What do you do when you bottle so much inside but there's no one you can share it with... What do you do when everything in life just seems to crumble apart? What do you do when you put forth all your efforts with no results? What do you do when you just want it to end and say "fuck it" and just not care anymore?
What happens... I don't even know.
Any advices or related stories, if there are people out there who feel the same way about life sometimes, please, feel free to share.
;_; Slap yourself in the face hard. Motivate yourself. I motivate myself with this: Go hit the gym, go get buff, bang some bitches, college, bang bitches, travel, live life. This life goal makes me quite happy... It's what humans have evolved to do, so of course it makes you happy. It's the natural thing to make you happy. It only doesn't if you have values which lead to you doubting those things and enough time to think to entertain these values. People can be very different.
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