So I get home to Seattle on Tuesday night after driving 2 days from Las Vegas. I hit up all my friends on Facebook; then I hit up PlentyofFish. Its the middle of the week, and I thought I would jump start setting up dates. Basically created a second account for Seattle just a few days prior. Its an exact replica of my other profile.
I Start blasting 40 pages of chicks with this opener:
Title: "Open This Message"
Message: "Here is the deal - no bullsh*tabout how you "seem like a really cool person".
I just thought you were adorable and want to meet you. Let's go out some time."
To be Honest, this probably isn't the best opener. I have Never used it before now and I'm using it because my friend tried it and said it worked for him. I think for this opener to work, you have to have a decent profile. And basically the opener is designed so that if she likes you, it sets up the date very fast. Its more of a cut the bullshit message. I got her number in 3 messages:
Me: Here is the deal - no bullsh*tabout how you "seem like a really cool person".
I just thought you were adorable and want to meet you. Let's go out some time.
Her: Lol well gees..I like the up front honesty ....sounds good to me!
Me: Cool I Love Hispanic girls, lets do coffee shop. I'm only visiting
for a bit, visiting family for the holidays. Whats your schedule
Her: Sounds like a plan...i work in redmond...I'm working 9-5 all week so
Anytime after is cool with me.
Me: Okay, lets do tomorrow. I drove from Cali, need to do some shopping
and find a jacket hehe. Lets meet around 7pm at bellevue square
mall. How do I get a hold of you.
Her: That could work...maybe a little later..I have to go
home after work to change n take my Dog out for a
bit... Text me 509.3XX.XXXX
I texted her this afternoon at 3pm. She responds around 5pm. I told her I will call her in a few minutes. I set up a Starbucks date (over the phone) in between both our homes at 830pm.
So I go in, shes already there. I walk in, gave her a great big smile and hug. She had two couches saved for me. I basically jumped Into rapport stuff with a little bit of humor. Conversation started about how I drove from Cali and the interesting things I saw on the Way. I wore a fitted dress shirt because it was after workout and I wanted to look ripped. It was cold as fuck so I made some excuse how its Sunny in Cali and I forgot to bring my jacket and I didnt have time to buy one. I told her she seemed very extroverted and she's very open. She told me she was Actually quite sHy. I'M like "hmm... interesting". Must be a good thing if I opened her up so fast. So it was about an hour of talking about pretty mundane get to know each other questions. I just basically kept the vibe up. Stuff include where she was from, where was her family, What she studied and worked. But again, I Never ask multiple questions in a row. If I ask a question, I will either tell a similar story of my own, relate to her, tease her, or tell her What it reminded me of. After doing cold approach, it feels like day 2's are fucking 10000x easier. I mean, I can plow for 20 minutes where the girl is not talking, how easy is it to get Into conversations where its 50/50 and the you get to ask lame get to know each other questions? LOL! Its freaking 10pm and Starbucks was about to close, and of course, you can't Really escalate in a fucking coffee shop. The only thing I did at that point was touch her hand.
So I tried to bounce her to another location. My friend from HS texted me they were going to a club in downtown Seattle which has a Wed night thing. So I tell her we are going there and she complied. I put it in my phone GPs and showed her it was Only 17 miles away (to build comfort).
I am driving down the highway I-5 and as I was going 70, my fucking rear right tire explodes. I pull over to the shoulder and inside my head I am like, oh god, this night is over before it even started, FML. I open the back to find the spare tire but I couldn't find the jack. I called the tow truck guy and he was like, its somewhere in the back near the tire. I didn't realize how small it was. He told me that it was much cheaper and faster for me to change tire myself than to have them come over, so I decide to do that. Inside my head I am like FUCK FUCK FUCK. But then I am thinking to myself, you know, its times like this that girls look at you and see if you are a man and if you can take control when shit breaks loose. So I looked at her and smiled and SaiD, "this night is becoming a crazy adventure, I bet you didn't expect a flat tire did you?". Oh btw, its fucking 1030pm and cold as hell outside. I go out in increments and come back to the car to warm up. First I put up the jack and I go back inside. I tell her to keep me warm by rubbing my arms. While shes doing that, i go for a Kiss. Then I tell her "I bet you Never got a make out while on a shoulder of a highway before?" She laughed. I am thinking in my head, this is cool. She is looking at my face and if I am calm and collected, she will mirror that. And the fact that I framed it as an adventure and I will fix it in no problem, she wasn't too phased by it.
So I finally put on the spare (good job for not bringing a jacket, you douche). I get in the car and headed for the club. Wed night, the parking wasnt Bad, rolled right in. I find my friend instantly, and I do my hand shake with him and introduced my girl. While I was talking to my friend, Another old HS buddy comes in with high enthusiasm and high fives me. I am like, cool, I'm getting Social proofed and the girl knows I have friends lol. Basically told her the story of how we knew each other. Since all my friends there were Asian, I whispered in her ear that I have White and Mexican friends too, and she laughed.
The club was crowded so it was a good place to escalate kino. I was next to a support column so I locked in and leaned my self against it. Then I talked about her scarf, it was striped and I said it looked like a Bengal scarf. I took it, wrapped it around my neck and have her hold on to it. The lock in was fucking sick.... I looked like a total OG right there Haha. I look around, I see a couple of Black guys and they are doing the same thing.... locked in and having the girl lean Into them. Damn you Black guys born with game!
One thing I know is that moving a girl around builds more connection and comfort quickly. I bounced her to the back of the club, its got sofas next to Fish tanks. We took some pictures with the picture guy in the back and then we Sat on the couch, I put my arms around her. I got a make out there. One of the cool things with Mexican girls is that a lot of them are just very chill. They have a calm and collected personality. No crazy bitch Asian chick persona or crazy chick attitude.... just fun, smiling, telling stories and no BS drama. They are also very passionate and I guess escalating wasn't very hard to do.
I'm getting hungry. After the gym around 7pm, I had a Light meal. I have this problem with farting due to my high calorie and protein diet that I try not to eat a lot before a date lol. So I took her to China town and we ate at a restaurant. Love Chinatown, they got restaurants open to 3am. Ordered hot and sour soup and Mongolian beef. At this point, I am kind of tired and I wasn't thinking of pushing for a lay since my mouth will taste like damn hot and sour soup but the soup tastes so damn good! We ate and I paid. Here is the thing, I suggested to eat, she wasn't that hungry, It was obvious that I should pay. Again, I usually pay. But also, I usually go eat because I want to eat myself and not because I am trying to impress a girl.
Anyways, we hop Into the car and head back. Because I am driving with a stupid spare tire that shouldn't go 55mph, I took the regular road back to the mall where we met up. It was more Chill talking. No State pumping, no crazy kino. I held her hand in the car and rubbed her thighs. We get to her car inside the parking lot Which was underneath the movie theater and it was just me and her car side by side. So I go for Another makeout, and obviously she complies. Then I go for those busty latina boobies and she was cool with that. I'm like, hey this is pretty cool, her breath doesn't smell like hot and sour soup anymore (I gave her gum after the restaurant). I ask her about when we are hanging out again, she said Friday. After more kissing. She gets amped up, and I asked her if she wants to continue now or Friday, she says Friday. I am thinking to myself, god dammit, Friday is my going out day where I get to practice cold approaching. Lets make it happen tonight! So I basically rub her in her jeans and she agrees to go to the back seat with me.
Anyways, as we were about to take off our pants, the fucking garbage / brush cleaner truck goes Into the fucking parking lot cleaning. The truck circled around my car like 20 times, I am like why is he doing that? I am thinking to my self, OMG I am getting cock blocked by a damn truck! Then I realized that my headlights are on... OMFG! I quickly turned it off but I think the truck guy knew whats up. After 10 minutes they left and we continued. And then the security car drives by, stopped for 5 seconds and then left!!! I thought it was gonna be over and that I would be arrested for public indecency... luckily, my car is 90% tinted and we fogged up the windows pretty good. Also, next time, note to self, park normally please.... I parked literally in between two parking lines. The rest was history. First day in Seattle and already a lay. Also first lay off PlentyofFish. Online gaming is definitely a lot easier when you start off in cold approach.